Getting inside

[T3rowsfromreno]

I've gone on a couple of dates with this girl, and even made out with her for a solid hour but nothing further happened. The next time we hung out I couldn't land the invite inside. What are your guys go to moves for that invite inside. Were going out tomorrow night.

 

[Jack123Frost]

I'm assuming you're talking about an invite inside her house...

Maybe ask to go back to your place? If for some reason you really want to go to her place, just say, "Hey, why don't we go back and chill at your place for awhile?" I don't really expect for her to lead things and ask you inside. Just my two cents.

-Jack

 

[Fuck This]

Well the "can I use your bathroom?" is a classic.

But best bet is to establish you are coming in before you get there.

Third Date, If you are feeling cheeky, you could say you do a "home inspection for all third date girls to make sure they don't have their ex boyfriend tied up in the basement".

Alternately..."I'm going to have to interview your roommates. will they be good references?"

Above all don't be pushy. Lead but don't be pushy...

 

[Marcellus]

I've gone on a couple of dates with this girl, and even made out with her for a solid hour but nothing further happened. The next time we hung out I couldn't land the invite inside. What are your guys go to moves for that invite inside. Were going out tomorrow night.

Maybe try to build some more comfort and bring them back to your place? Girls feel more comfortable going to yours instead, plus as TwoRocky said, you can always ask to use the bathroom haha.

 

[Bboy100]

It doesn't matter which "excuse" you use, so much as it matters that you have context for inviting her over in the first place.

Ex.
You're talking about some great movie which you both like. Then you use it to invite her over. It might look like this:

You & Her: [Conversation about how you both like The Dark Knight]
You: You know...now I kinda feel like watching it. I have it on blue ray/netflix/on my computer. Let's go watch it.

You can use the same process for anything. It could be your dog, having a glass of wine, showing her your guitar, playing a game of checkers...you name it. You can apply this process to any activity you might do in your apartment.

What you SHOULDN'T do is just invite her right out of the blue.

Ex.
You & Her: [Conversation about her hopes dreams etc]
You: Hey, we should go watch a movie at my place.

...In this example, there was no context, no good reason...she still might accept your invite if she's made the logical decision to have sex with you (it is the 3rd date after all!), but it's a much less convincing story for her to tell her logical mind & her friends after the date (which is what plausible deniability is all about).