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This is how I get numbers from girls I only know through social media.
Normally if its a girl you've known awhile this doesn't work as well.
The best bet is to let the girl message you first about something. If she doesn't message you message her in the same manner you'd text a girl you're interested in. Send a couple messages back, but then tell her you're getting off your computer and post your number and tell her to text it. Don't say anything like "if you want to keep talking". Telling her to text you is a command and if she does it it feels more like shes chasing than if you say "if you want to keep talking," which makes you sound needy or something.
So if she texts you awsome! Now you have her number. I always wait for an hour or so before messaging her back and then I try to set up a date as if you would with any other girl you just started texting. Shoot for setting it up in 10 texts or less (I try for about the 2nd or 3rd one). If she texts you it shows some level of interest. Think about it would you text someone that gave you that message online if you weren't somewhat interested in talking to them?
One I've been trying lately, but only been given the chance once to do so far (with success) is when she messages me wait the hour or so. Then my very first message goes along the lines "Hi xxxx, can't really talk right now. Lets meet up this week for lunch texting is so impersonal."
I feel that messaging the date on the first text is going to be a real winner. I'll let you guys know when I've tried it more times, but I don't do a lot of social media so don't have a lot of girls to try it on.
I feel that having her text you is a commitment that gets her chasing. Its one thing to give your number away, but to punch someone else's in your phone and sending that first message is an actual progressive step in my mind.
Normally if its a girl you've known awhile this doesn't work as well.
The best bet is to let the girl message you first about something. If she doesn't message you message her in the same manner you'd text a girl you're interested in. Send a couple messages back, but then tell her you're getting off your computer and post your number and tell her to text it. Don't say anything like "if you want to keep talking". Telling her to text you is a command and if she does it it feels more like shes chasing than if you say "if you want to keep talking," which makes you sound needy or something.
So if she texts you awsome! Now you have her number. I always wait for an hour or so before messaging her back and then I try to set up a date as if you would with any other girl you just started texting. Shoot for setting it up in 10 texts or less (I try for about the 2nd or 3rd one). If she texts you it shows some level of interest. Think about it would you text someone that gave you that message online if you weren't somewhat interested in talking to them?
One I've been trying lately, but only been given the chance once to do so far (with success) is when she messages me wait the hour or so. Then my very first message goes along the lines "Hi xxxx, can't really talk right now. Lets meet up this week for lunch texting is so impersonal."
I feel that messaging the date on the first text is going to be a real winner. I'll let you guys know when I've tried it more times, but I don't do a lot of social media so don't have a lot of girls to try it on.
I feel that having her text you is a commitment that gets her chasing. Its one thing to give your number away, but to punch someone else's in your phone and sending that first message is an actual progressive step in my mind.
