Good evening gentlemen,
I recently got the number of an older woman (30 y/o with a 5 y/o kid) and we're setting up a meetup for next week. I'm still somewhat of a beginner at seduction, and being 24 and entering new territory with this one am a bit intimidated/not sure how to proceed. Thus, I was wondering if any of you had insights into how to pick up on signs and make things happen with older women/women with kids.
If you'd be willing to share your thoughts on my particular situation I'd appreciate it also. I met her in a bar at a networking event (with internations, which I'd highly recommend as a way to try new things and meet people/women by the way), and picked up on the following signs of attraction:
-She approached/opened me (while I was talking to someone else)
-She focused her attention/body language on me to the point that the other guy got blocked out and left.
-We deep-dived for maybe 2 hours, with her talking 70% of the time and seeming to really enjoy herself.
-She stood rather close, used a lot of "incidental touching", let me touch her/physically lead her.
-She told a story involving her falling for a gorgeous blue-eyed American (I'm a blue-eyed American... I'm in Colombia by the way).
-When I asked if she had a significant other she said she's just dating around (which sounds like a classic Chase line come to think of it).
-When she left she initiated giving me her business card, and when I contacted her she responded warmly/suggested a meetup time.
The complicated part is we never did anything overtly sexual/romantic, I didn't use much sexual framing, we were at a networking event so friendliness/exchanging info is expected, and after such a long interaction without escalation I fear the friend/associate zone. Finally, her reply to my message sent mixed messages:
“I had a good time too! I was kind of upset at myself last night, because I didn't stop talking. I was kind of dizzy with my own speech... I hope next time you tell me more about yourself!
We should organize some event for the Internations affiliates... (red flag)
Next week I'll have some time in the afternoon, so let me know what's your availability.”
Anyway sorry for the long post, and any general tips/insights on my current situation would be appreciated.
Thanks!
I recently got the number of an older woman (30 y/o with a 5 y/o kid) and we're setting up a meetup for next week. I'm still somewhat of a beginner at seduction, and being 24 and entering new territory with this one am a bit intimidated/not sure how to proceed. Thus, I was wondering if any of you had insights into how to pick up on signs and make things happen with older women/women with kids.
If you'd be willing to share your thoughts on my particular situation I'd appreciate it also. I met her in a bar at a networking event (with internations, which I'd highly recommend as a way to try new things and meet people/women by the way), and picked up on the following signs of attraction:
-She approached/opened me (while I was talking to someone else)
-She focused her attention/body language on me to the point that the other guy got blocked out and left.
-We deep-dived for maybe 2 hours, with her talking 70% of the time and seeming to really enjoy herself.
-She stood rather close, used a lot of "incidental touching", let me touch her/physically lead her.
-She told a story involving her falling for a gorgeous blue-eyed American (I'm a blue-eyed American... I'm in Colombia by the way).
-When I asked if she had a significant other she said she's just dating around (which sounds like a classic Chase line come to think of it).
-When she left she initiated giving me her business card, and when I contacted her she responded warmly/suggested a meetup time.
The complicated part is we never did anything overtly sexual/romantic, I didn't use much sexual framing, we were at a networking event so friendliness/exchanging info is expected, and after such a long interaction without escalation I fear the friend/associate zone. Finally, her reply to my message sent mixed messages:
“I had a good time too! I was kind of upset at myself last night, because I didn't stop talking. I was kind of dizzy with my own speech... I hope next time you tell me more about yourself!
We should organize some event for the Internations affiliates... (red flag)
Next week I'll have some time in the afternoon, so let me know what's your availability.”
Anyway sorry for the long post, and any general tips/insights on my current situation would be appreciated.
Thanks!
