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This is partially my fault for giving her a SERIOUS sexual awakening. As chase says - it can be dangerous to do that to an inexperienced girl cause she can go crazy - well thats exactly what has happend here - if I'd just had normal sex with her she would never of dreamed of doing this - she's said so herself - but shockingly here we are...unbelievable! - what does chase say to do in this situation? can anyone remind me?
We havent seen each other in a while partially because she was getting bitchy with me about not seeing her enough and a few other things (btw this is the most loving giving girl I have ever met she is amazing in that sense). She turns around yesterday and tells me shes shown her tits and made a lot of money over 4 hours on a site.....now this isn't a totally new idea, she had mentioned she might like to try it in the past and I had said she should try it - but obviously this was assuming she'd tell me when she actually wanted to do it! I have responded by asking her to give me total control of her body again over the next 4 weekends and to stop until we establish some rules/boundaries. She had made me a really cute card saying sorry and that she didnt want to do it again. We had a wonderful evening where she wanted me so bad and agreed to all this - I didnt have sex with her cause I wanted to save that for the weekend also it was fun to tease.
Then I called her up when she got home to ask her for some details for the website and she was super tired blew up when I asked her twice said I was suddenly being controlling and said we should end it because I can't trust her without some "crazy controlling rules"... WE've gone from me not caring enough to apparently being controlling in a VERY short space of time - talk about a tightrope! I think people here can understand my need to reclaim her body right? - I basically said she needs to give herself to me? - be totally submissive again like she always was at the start.
She's said she would like to give me what I want but doesnt seem to like the way its phrased interms of control and rules. How can I reframe what I want in a better way - I think deep down she wants to do it for me but I'm not framing it right..... I think one issue with the way I did it is I asked for too much investment in one go from a relatively cold standpoint... I maybe need to build her upto it more gradually and also have sex with her if she agrees again.
Treading lightly. I think I need to meet her and support her through a tough time shes in at the moment while still keeping my demands in place...
You?
We havent seen each other in a while partially because she was getting bitchy with me about not seeing her enough and a few other things (btw this is the most loving giving girl I have ever met she is amazing in that sense). She turns around yesterday and tells me shes shown her tits and made a lot of money over 4 hours on a site.....now this isn't a totally new idea, she had mentioned she might like to try it in the past and I had said she should try it - but obviously this was assuming she'd tell me when she actually wanted to do it! I have responded by asking her to give me total control of her body again over the next 4 weekends and to stop until we establish some rules/boundaries. She had made me a really cute card saying sorry and that she didnt want to do it again. We had a wonderful evening where she wanted me so bad and agreed to all this - I didnt have sex with her cause I wanted to save that for the weekend also it was fun to tease.
Then I called her up when she got home to ask her for some details for the website and she was super tired blew up when I asked her twice said I was suddenly being controlling and said we should end it because I can't trust her without some "crazy controlling rules"... WE've gone from me not caring enough to apparently being controlling in a VERY short space of time - talk about a tightrope! I think people here can understand my need to reclaim her body right? - I basically said she needs to give herself to me? - be totally submissive again like she always was at the start.
She's said she would like to give me what I want but doesnt seem to like the way its phrased interms of control and rules. How can I reframe what I want in a better way - I think deep down she wants to do it for me but I'm not framing it right..... I think one issue with the way I did it is I asked for too much investment in one go from a relatively cold standpoint... I maybe need to build her upto it more gradually and also have sex with her if she agrees again.
Treading lightly. I think I need to meet her and support her through a tough time shes in at the moment while still keeping my demands in place...
You?