Ghosted- after getting contact detail and scheduling date on Bumble

[empath]

I matched today with a girl in bumble and was having a fun chat did a bit of what if / roleplay and made the chick laugh .... The she hinted she smokes up weed.

I screened her for spontaneity.


I told her I have some and then she her self asked when and where.

I told her to meet in our.

She gave her number to me.

Then I called her by mistake and her call came.

I said I will share u my location and then I cut the call. I think she was saying she is busy.

Also, i confused her name.

After this 5 second call i shared her my location and texted her let's meet at XX and we can plan this later if u r busy.

Suddenly in next 5 min she unmatched me on bumble and blocked me on whatsapp.

Now I want to know can anything be done here. I have another number where I am not blocked.

Also, why did she ghosted me.

I think either call was the reason, she voice didn't matched the vibe i created on text.

She didn't liked my what's app dp

Her ASD kicked in. It was written on her profile that she isn't looking for a hook up. And she asked me whether I read her profile or not.

Another question is can anything be done

I tried calling her but it came busy ... Thinkimg about sending her a hail marry text from another number.

I usually don't do this but felt like text u ...Idk why u suddenly blocked me ... Our vibe was really matching maybe u felt that I am looking for a hook up ... But that's not the case ... If want to talk over lemme know ... Tbh we both will get plenty of matches but wbu the vibe

Also how much should I wait before giving this hail marry. I think I should have given this text right away only

 

[Dimension]

Hello Empath,

Your expression is a bit unclear, but...

There could be several reasons why she didn't engage with you after that call. It's possible you sounded nervous on the phone, and she might not have felt comfortable with you during the call.

It could also be that you rushed into meeting her, and she didn't feel comfortable.

In addition to everything mentioned above,

The best approach you can take, if any, is to make her feel comfortable. Try injecting a bit of humor and avoid sending lengthy texts. A simple message like, "I guess we're on the mend now," might be the best thing to say.

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Move along buddy

Chicks may block you for any reason and you'll never be able to pin down why most of the time

Matters little if you guys had a connection or not...

If a chick blocks me ...I shrug it off and go meet or text others instead

It would have been fun if things progressed with her but why should I have to sit and muddle over what text to send that will win her back

If you said anything that lowered your attainability an auto-rejection turnaround message is all you need to get things moving forward again

Otherwise, you just chasing her

Idk why u suddenly blocked me ... Our vibe was really matching maybe u felt that I am looking for a hook up ...

you are further cementing her emotion, u r in trying-to-save-things mode ....doesn't sound like an outcome-independent dude to me


u were not looking for a hookup? lol ,why are you texting her then

there are different ways to show your intention smoothly in a way that she won't mind it but guess what ...it's best done in person:

How sexy you are, how much sexual tension is in the air between the two of you, how you carry yourself , how man-to-woman things are between the two of you, etc

Trust me you don't have to "play the nice guy hiding his banana " kind of thing nor should you show all your cards either

If you want to meet her you can easily text her along Skills line "...See if the vibe/chemistry is there... " and she'll come out( most likely if you've run things right)

Don't complicate things or send texts after another thinking she will come out

you are just messing things up for yourself especially if you don't know what you are doing( not knocking you here)

Tbh we both will get plenty of matches

"you are just a commodity to me" ....that's what you are telling her here


so yeah there may be different reasons why she blocked you...maybe she wasn't interested all along and was just being flirty


who knows

again I move along if a chick blocks me ( happens rarely )

Trying to get her back using a different no is outright chase-y for me

Chalk it up as a loss and do it better next time

Chad

 

[empath]

I moved on from her, penty of fish. I just don't want this to happen next time

 

[empath]

What do if girl wants to add me on insta. A different chick from her asked me to meet up and meanwhile to stay connected over insta.

As soon as I accepted her insta request she checked it out and Ghosted me from both insta and bumble.

My thought process if I just say a no she will outright unmatch me and if gets in touch over insta there might be a chance she will not. (Though I know she will my insta is not that great)

 

[James D]

Girls from dating apps can stop texting at any time.

Sometimes it's got nothing to do with you.

 

[empath]

I will be just positive ... Improves my belief of cold approach over dating apps.

I will still keep them in case I get lucky or end up making a good female friend.

 

[nicolascfl]

You should focus on other girls I think

 

[raiden]

Women do block willy nilly. But did you actually plan a date? Like did you have "meet me at x time at y place and we'll do z thing"?

 

[empath]

Women do block willy nilly. But did you actually plan a date? Like did you have "meet me at x time at y place and we'll do z thing"?

Yes I did this thing.

I discussed time and place and we were gonna smoke up.

I think it was my nervousness in the call.

Also, another hint I got is my WhatsApp DP is not good i Look way older in that, is not congruent with what i put on bumble so she might have felt being catfished, coupled with shitty conversation on call.

I have also started asking girls why did they swiped to check if they liked my pic or whether it was random.

Also I have moved on from this chick felt bad what can we do approach more chicks.