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- Jan 12, 2014
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This was a night time street game, and I had 2 of my friends, who are also into pick up, with me.
Approach No. 1:
There were three girls laughing and walking away from the bars. As this was our first approach we were a bit hesitant so we walked behind them for 30 seconds and beat our anxieties before we approached them. One of the girls was very startled by my friend as he said hi, then we engaged the rest of the group. The girl I talked wasn't incredibly interested but she wasn't negative at all, I tried to build some rapport and we had a fun conversation going on as she was trying to figure out where I was from and investing in the conversation. Then suddenly one of their friends separated and started walking really fast, now my girl joined her so there I was talking to the last girl and still having an okay conversation when they all started to walk really fast and start giggling like little girls, and then they went off to another street as they shouted "Bye". I knew we could have done something against this, we didn't persist too much. I would have no doubts if they outright rejected us, but I'm not sure if they were hoping for us to chase after them (literally) and re-engage. Anyways, we let them go and went back to our main location.
Approach No. 2:
I saw two girls that were acting funny, I though they were a bit tipsy so I got one of my friend and then direct opened them. The conversation was very positive, I quickly got them to engage, and we didn't even talk two sentences about ourselves while they answered our questions. They were in the middle of the process of trying to find a bus to return home so one of the girls was very hyper and she was affecting the other one and trying to get her to move. It didn't help that this hyper girl didn't speak English well, as I tried to get her into the conversation. While this was happening the other girl was much more interested in me, and she would answer the questions that the hyper girl couldn't. After some minutes, just as I was thinking about asking them to come and drink something with us they got a call about their bus and we wen't along with them. At this point I was ready to call it over and say goodbye as I didn't expect anything to come out of it. Just as the hyper girl ran toward the bus this other girl stopped and said "I'd like to keep talking to you", so I said "Well, how do I contact you?" as I pulled out my phone and then she put her number in it, then we said goodbye and she left.
Approach No. 3:
A cute girl was walking by herself out of the bar street so I ran up to her and I was just about to do a direct opening she turned around so I said "Hi, I wanted to meet you, what's your name?" She had this face full of absolute contempt when she answered, so I was disgusted by her reaction and my attraction to her fell down below zero. I said "Why are you so cold?", she wasn't expecting that question so she stumbled a bit and said "Uhm, I'm trying to rush to my sister, she's over there, now if you'll excus-.." I didn't listen to the rest of her rambling and I went back to my friends.
Approach No. 4:
Two party girls who were standing outside caught my eye, as they had amazing bodies, so I went up to one of them for a direct and she said "No name" in response to asking her name, and instantly started walking away with her friend. Ah, lingua, engage the ones who're done partying not the ones who have had 50 guys lined up in the club to order them a drink. From this interaction I've added another data point to my rejection repertoire.
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The girl in No.2 has just texted me, I'm thinking about setting up a date asap, and directly inviting her home; I'd like to end my dry spell and eat the fruits of my labor at last. Any comments/criticisms/suggestions are welcome.
Approach No. 1:
There were three girls laughing and walking away from the bars. As this was our first approach we were a bit hesitant so we walked behind them for 30 seconds and beat our anxieties before we approached them. One of the girls was very startled by my friend as he said hi, then we engaged the rest of the group. The girl I talked wasn't incredibly interested but she wasn't negative at all, I tried to build some rapport and we had a fun conversation going on as she was trying to figure out where I was from and investing in the conversation. Then suddenly one of their friends separated and started walking really fast, now my girl joined her so there I was talking to the last girl and still having an okay conversation when they all started to walk really fast and start giggling like little girls, and then they went off to another street as they shouted "Bye". I knew we could have done something against this, we didn't persist too much. I would have no doubts if they outright rejected us, but I'm not sure if they were hoping for us to chase after them (literally) and re-engage. Anyways, we let them go and went back to our main location.
Approach No. 2:
I saw two girls that were acting funny, I though they were a bit tipsy so I got one of my friend and then direct opened them. The conversation was very positive, I quickly got them to engage, and we didn't even talk two sentences about ourselves while they answered our questions. They were in the middle of the process of trying to find a bus to return home so one of the girls was very hyper and she was affecting the other one and trying to get her to move. It didn't help that this hyper girl didn't speak English well, as I tried to get her into the conversation. While this was happening the other girl was much more interested in me, and she would answer the questions that the hyper girl couldn't. After some minutes, just as I was thinking about asking them to come and drink something with us they got a call about their bus and we wen't along with them. At this point I was ready to call it over and say goodbye as I didn't expect anything to come out of it. Just as the hyper girl ran toward the bus this other girl stopped and said "I'd like to keep talking to you", so I said "Well, how do I contact you?" as I pulled out my phone and then she put her number in it, then we said goodbye and she left.
Approach No. 3:
A cute girl was walking by herself out of the bar street so I ran up to her and I was just about to do a direct opening she turned around so I said "Hi, I wanted to meet you, what's your name?" She had this face full of absolute contempt when she answered, so I was disgusted by her reaction and my attraction to her fell down below zero. I said "Why are you so cold?", she wasn't expecting that question so she stumbled a bit and said "Uhm, I'm trying to rush to my sister, she's over there, now if you'll excus-.." I didn't listen to the rest of her rambling and I went back to my friends.
Approach No. 4:
Two party girls who were standing outside caught my eye, as they had amazing bodies, so I went up to one of them for a direct and she said "No name" in response to asking her name, and instantly started walking away with her friend. Ah, lingua, engage the ones who're done partying not the ones who have had 50 guys lined up in the club to order them a drink. From this interaction I've added another data point to my rejection repertoire.
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The girl in No.2 has just texted me, I'm thinking about setting up a date asap, and directly inviting her home; I'd like to end my dry spell and eat the fruits of my labor at last. Any comments/criticisms/suggestions are welcome.
