girl flaked as soon as we arranged date

[Whiteheart]

Hi everybody,

Hope you are all healthy and doing well. Girl canceled a date about an hour after we agreed for time and location with some sillly excuse.
I approached that girl in park two weeks ago. She is barely average looking and I think that my fundamentals are better. She was receptive, we had a lot of connection and she agreed for date and I took her fb info. Then I sent her icebreaker text and after a warm response tried to scedule date with "standard scheduler text". She declined because she had to go home in another sity but she said that will contact me when she returns. After a week a shoot her "sceduler II" text but she said that is still home and will contact me when she returns. Because she did not contacted me after that and I assumed she must returned I sent her "ball in your court message". After "ball in your court message" she finally contacted me and we arranged date for Friday afternoon because she has plans to go to bar that night. And than after less then hour after me arranged date she sent me a message "that she is not in good mood for association these days and does not want to be shy on meeting, and will contact me on time to confirm if arrangement is still on". I treated it like standard flake and sent her warm responce with "ball in her court message" to contact me if she is ready.
Now I do not know what caused sudden flake? I think because excuse was silly that maybe it is the lack of attraction? Or she has someone more interesting? I do not understand why she did not told me immediately that does not want to go but after we arranged everything? Did anyone have similar experience?

 

[Velasco]

after a warm response tried to scedule date with "standard scheduler text". She declined because she had to go home in another sity but she said that will contact me when she returns. After a week a shoot her "sceduler II" text but she said that is still home and will contact me when she returns

Rather than sending her a second scheduler text after she told you shed contact you when she gets back (which looks overeager btw. Not your fault, as we are all a bit overeager these days ), I'd have send her a funny meme. And not send anything else UNLESS she asks "how are you?" Then you can reveal your status/what you been up to + "how are you doing over there with your family?" This text will tell you if shes still there or she got back to your city.

If her answers reveals shes still with them, then build little bit of comfort, then end the convo. If she answers that shes back, then spike her emotions and set up a meet.

Doing it this way, you dont lose your power, by having her turn you down a second time

 

[Whiteheart]

Thanks for reply man. Excellent advices for funny meme, and you are right. I should not try with "scheduler II text" while she was home. Chase has just written excellent article about " playfully guilt trips". I will try to pin her and see if she will bite. Maybe it is too late for her (I am afraid that she lost attraction or found somebody that likes more and want to date him) but now it is great opportunity to practic this great technique.
If anyone has more advices or opinions about this please share them. Sorry for bad English.