Girl from work likes me?

[Starboy]

So today at work I was working in this stockroom and this new girl lets call her J was working in the same stockroom as me. She's this cute girl slightly taller than me at 5'9 or 5'10 with a decent body. The entire day she was asking me questions about myself and smiling as I gave her responses. Like literally almost everything you could know about a person she asked like where I go to school,what do I study,what do I do for fun, favorite foods,music,movies, where I live etc. Near the end of her work shift she asked for my snapchat so I gave it. I tried my best to be flirty throughout out interactions,but I still struggle with having a flirty,sexy vibe. I asked for compliance once by asking to take a closer look at her necklace with her name on it which she thought was odd,but did it anyways.I wanted to ask her out to this big park around me so I asked her if she likes going to parks,but she said not really or sometime so I thought this was a bad date idea. I was going to ask if she wanted to get food sometime,but I deliberated too much because I was nervous about asking her out in front of other people so I lost my window. I just wanted to get feedback to confirm that she has interest in me above being just a friend based on her actions. Also does it really matter if you ask a girl out while others are around and listening and was it a bad idea to tell her all those things about myself like my interests, hobbies,tastes?

 

[Mike&Ikes]

Ben, from the looks of it, she either was really interested at first, or she is just a really friendly gal. If I were you, I wouldn’t have answered near as many questions because it’s important that she feels connected to you instead of you connected to her. I would have made a joke after the 3rd question “haha what is this, an interview? You tell me about bla bla bla” or something along those lines. Ask her questions and deep dive, and you want a mystery vibe going on about you.
Ask yourself, do you think she learned more about you than you about her? If so, no bueno. Later when you asked her out, you should have persisted a little bit. If all she said was “nah” than you could persist and say “hey I promise it’ll be fun, trust me.” Even if you have to ask 50 times, if she says yes, then you win.

Finally, think of that whole interaction as her trying to test to see if you were mate material. However... it seems that at the very best, she slotted you into “boyfriend material” and at the very worst “friend material.”

Good news is, you have her Snapchat, so now you can try again to set up a date. It really won’t hurt to try even if she isn’t all that interested.

Good luck,
-Mike

 

[Starboy]

Thanks I appreciate your input. I didnt actually ask her out to the park I just wanted to see if she was open to going to one which I thought she wasn't. I'm gonna see her again at work this weekend so if I asked her out I would do it in person. After she left I asked out this other girl at work who I went out with before to the park and she was down so not riding my hopes on one girl