Hello,
So I Met This Girl Through A Mobile Game. On First Day Of Meeting, I was Talking To Her Very Normally, Didn't Try To Flirt With Her, Didn't Try To Impress Her or Anything.
So, on Second Day, I Get To meet Her Again, There I Talked To Her More, Get To Know Her. And After Some Time, I Exchanged Phone Number With Her ( on second day).
So, She Started Calling Me On WhatsApp A Lot, Texting A Lot Etc. Okay.
She Did Told Me......On Her First day meeting Me That She Have A Boyfriend From Another Country, Now The Country She Mentions ( is Not On Good Terms With Our Country, Let's Say, Both Country Hate Each Other) . She Is From Same Country As Mine.
So, I did Ignore Her ''i have a bf from other country'" cause to me......I didn't care. She mentions Later that she never met her 'bf' and ....it's Been 1 year or so them Loving each Other.
Now......As She Started To Talked to Me Over Call And Texts More, I Started Having Feelings For This Girl. And Now M Being Very Insecure About Her ( which Don't usually happens With Me)
So, Whenever M Online In Game........I See Her Playing With Other Dudes, Seems Like She Likes To Talk To Lots Of Dudes (Which I Don't Like in Someone I Like A Lot).
Anyway, She Says That She Is just Talking To Them......it's Nothing Like The Way She Talks To Me ( meaning, She did express to me that she Loves Me). And She Is Confused Between Me And Her ''bf from other country''. She Says......She Can't Leave Her Love Of More than 1 Years.
Sometimes She Misbehave With Me......Which I Don't Like. And Also I Don't Really Like Her Spending Time With Other Dudes etc. We've been talking For Over A Month. Now I Know.....Girlchase Motto.......Move Fast, Get Sex With a Girl u like Fast. But She Lives Far from My State. It's Gonna Cost me plus it takes time to Reach there. M A Student, don't have Job Right Now.....so, I can't afford to go there to seal the deal.
She did mention that her One Aunt Lives Very Close To My City, I often Visit That City. Now if she manages to Visit Her Aunt, Than I Can Meet Her. Otherwise it's gonna take much longer to Actually Meet Her.
I Haven't Put The Ideas to her Coming To Visit Her Aunt, So that we can Meet.
So, What should I do In Situation Like This? I Need Real Advice On This. Like I Get Very Insecure About Her.....When She Talks To Other Dudes. Plus, She Sometimes Says That She Doesn't Wanna Leave Her 'bf' And Want Me Stay In Her Life Also.
M Not Expert With Girls, But People Here Are. So .....Help Me In Situation Like This. what should I do? Leave Her Completely. ( meaning cut her from my life) Cause She Is Affecting Me So Much Emotionally.
Or ignore The Fact That She Already Loves Other Dude And Try to Set a Meeting And Seal The Deal?
Any Words Will Be Appreciated.
Thanks
DUKE
So I Met This Girl Through A Mobile Game. On First Day Of Meeting, I was Talking To Her Very Normally, Didn't Try To Flirt With Her, Didn't Try To Impress Her or Anything.
So, on Second Day, I Get To meet Her Again, There I Talked To Her More, Get To Know Her. And After Some Time, I Exchanged Phone Number With Her ( on second day).
So, She Started Calling Me On WhatsApp A Lot, Texting A Lot Etc. Okay.
She Did Told Me......On Her First day meeting Me That She Have A Boyfriend From Another Country, Now The Country She Mentions ( is Not On Good Terms With Our Country, Let's Say, Both Country Hate Each Other) . She Is From Same Country As Mine.
So, I did Ignore Her ''i have a bf from other country'" cause to me......I didn't care. She mentions Later that she never met her 'bf' and ....it's Been 1 year or so them Loving each Other.
Now......As She Started To Talked to Me Over Call And Texts More, I Started Having Feelings For This Girl. And Now M Being Very Insecure About Her ( which Don't usually happens With Me)
So, Whenever M Online In Game........I See Her Playing With Other Dudes, Seems Like She Likes To Talk To Lots Of Dudes (Which I Don't Like in Someone I Like A Lot).
Anyway, She Says That She Is just Talking To Them......it's Nothing Like The Way She Talks To Me ( meaning, She did express to me that she Loves Me). And She Is Confused Between Me And Her ''bf from other country''. She Says......She Can't Leave Her Love Of More than 1 Years.
Sometimes She Misbehave With Me......Which I Don't Like. And Also I Don't Really Like Her Spending Time With Other Dudes etc. We've been talking For Over A Month. Now I Know.....Girlchase Motto.......Move Fast, Get Sex With a Girl u like Fast. But She Lives Far from My State. It's Gonna Cost me plus it takes time to Reach there. M A Student, don't have Job Right Now.....so, I can't afford to go there to seal the deal.
She did mention that her One Aunt Lives Very Close To My City, I often Visit That City. Now if she manages to Visit Her Aunt, Than I Can Meet Her. Otherwise it's gonna take much longer to Actually Meet Her.
I Haven't Put The Ideas to her Coming To Visit Her Aunt, So that we can Meet.
So, What should I do In Situation Like This? I Need Real Advice On This. Like I Get Very Insecure About Her.....When She Talks To Other Dudes. Plus, She Sometimes Says That She Doesn't Wanna Leave Her 'bf' And Want Me Stay In Her Life Also.
M Not Expert With Girls, But People Here Are. So .....Help Me In Situation Like This. what should I do? Leave Her Completely. ( meaning cut her from my life) Cause She Is Affecting Me So Much Emotionally.
Or ignore The Fact That She Already Loves Other Dude And Try to Set a Meeting And Seal The Deal?
Any Words Will Be Appreciated.
Thanks
DUKE
