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Got called a "good lad" by a coworker I like.
Met this girl a week ago during work (I only work weekends). She's russian so you know she's fit. I was the one that initiated the conversation cos I was bored and I didn't feel much of a connection but I started to like her more and more during that conversation. She talked about her life and her roots and I waffled about my roots (Tried to make it seem better that it was). She was quite closed off during the conversation.
I live alone at 16 so she asked me if I visited my parents, I responded with "yeah basically everyday" (Thought that was a good response. Made a couple jokes, she laughed and then I got back to work.
During the weekdays, I spent most of my time thinking about her and wondering what I should do next. I'm extremely independent and russian girls apparently like that so it was all too perfect. Even my friends thought I bagged her.
Next week, we ran into eachother at work (we work in two separate departments). She was the one that initiated the conversation. "Hey, [my name]! Do you remember me?", She said it a joyful tone. I stared at her in disbelief about how she said it, she sounded way too friendly. "Yeah, how are you?", I replied. In my head I thought she gay or I got friendzoned. "Im good, I had a good day", she said. Her friendliness made me depressed.
She then asked how I am at home and how my mum and dad are and if I visited them often (again), I replied once again with "Yeah everyday, any chance I get tbh". That's a lie, I don't visit them everyday or even often, only when I need to get something.
She then smiled and said "good lad" and walked away.
I was stunned and stood there for a hot five minutes
after that I couldn't stop laughing abt how big of a violation that was.
I was so demotivated I just sat there in the staffroom, trying to collect my thoughts.
Please tell me I didn't just get friendzoned.
Met this girl a week ago during work (I only work weekends). She's russian so you know she's fit. I was the one that initiated the conversation cos I was bored and I didn't feel much of a connection but I started to like her more and more during that conversation. She talked about her life and her roots and I waffled about my roots (Tried to make it seem better that it was). She was quite closed off during the conversation.
I live alone at 16 so she asked me if I visited my parents, I responded with "yeah basically everyday" (Thought that was a good response. Made a couple jokes, she laughed and then I got back to work.
During the weekdays, I spent most of my time thinking about her and wondering what I should do next. I'm extremely independent and russian girls apparently like that so it was all too perfect. Even my friends thought I bagged her.
Next week, we ran into eachother at work (we work in two separate departments). She was the one that initiated the conversation. "Hey, [my name]! Do you remember me?", She said it a joyful tone. I stared at her in disbelief about how she said it, she sounded way too friendly. "Yeah, how are you?", I replied. In my head I thought she gay or I got friendzoned. "Im good, I had a good day", she said. Her friendliness made me depressed.
She then asked how I am at home and how my mum and dad are and if I visited them often (again), I replied once again with "Yeah everyday, any chance I get tbh". That's a lie, I don't visit them everyday or even often, only when I need to get something.
She then smiled and said "good lad" and walked away.
I was stunned and stood there for a hot five minutes
after that I couldn't stop laughing abt how big of a violation that was.I was so demotivated I just sat there in the staffroom, trying to collect my thoughts.
Please tell me I didn't just get friendzoned.
