Got baffled today at school (HS). But first some backstory.
I'm pretty new to my class, started this fall. I'm very outgoing and talk to almost my entire class whenever I feel like it and such. But this one girl I've almost hadn't had a chat with the entire year until this week. I guess because she's ALWAYS with her BF at school. We are all in the same class.
But the few times I've talked to this girl, in PE and in recess she been pretty bitchy. Made comments about how her boyfriend is such a nice guy, in a white-knight kinda way(just last week in PE). Can't really remember the other stuff but it was usually snarky comments. I teased her for it.
I was still fairly new to the class when it happend. But she made a remark about me. Instead of getting upset or taking any offence at what she just said I just played it like she's a little kid who's mad about something trivial. It was something along the lines of:
Back to the present day, or yesterday. I saw her reading a book I recently read, I hit her up on that and we contiuned a bit. She was enjoying herself, I could see that very clearly we talked for a bit and she made another comment about a guy in our class when he walked by us told me about how unmasculine and feminine he was etc. Her own boyfriend isn't very "masculine" either. And he's the total opposite of her. He wears trashy cloths, have the jesus look (without beard) not social, don't drink, VERY childish. We ended on a very high note and class ended.
Next day during lunch our class sat at different tables which we usually dont. So I just made a light joke about it while maybe, half of the class were at the lockers getting their stuff for next period:
I just laughed it off and the rest of my mates just laughed and told me I got roasted etc, you know how it goes. But she still "humiliated" me in front of everyone. FYI, I know what she said is not the case, i'm very liked in the class, I get much attention from the rest of the girls they start convos and what not. All the boys like me. Half of the guys in our class is good mates to me (4/8).
But here's where it gets tricky. The past 1.5 years I've made a HUGE improvement in my social skills and awarness. I can tell if a girl is being serious or just joking most of the times. But this girl, I saw that she was geniune mad, she didn't flinch or anything then just walked past me to our next period. The rest of our class just thought it was a joke and brushed it off, as did I for the moment trying to save face. But I can't help to think about what I've done wrong here, or if she's trying my frame or if im just REALLY over-exaggerating this situation.
Thanks for any feedback, cheers!
I'm pretty new to my class, started this fall. I'm very outgoing and talk to almost my entire class whenever I feel like it and such. But this one girl I've almost hadn't had a chat with the entire year until this week. I guess because she's ALWAYS with her BF at school. We are all in the same class.
But the few times I've talked to this girl, in PE and in recess she been pretty bitchy. Made comments about how her boyfriend is such a nice guy, in a white-knight kinda way(just last week in PE). Can't really remember the other stuff but it was usually snarky comments. I teased her for it.
I was still fairly new to the class when it happend. But she made a remark about me. Instead of getting upset or taking any offence at what she just said I just played it like she's a little kid who's mad about something trivial. It was something along the lines of:
Back to the present day, or yesterday. I saw her reading a book I recently read, I hit her up on that and we contiuned a bit. She was enjoying herself, I could see that very clearly we talked for a bit and she made another comment about a guy in our class when he walked by us told me about how unmasculine and feminine he was etc. Her own boyfriend isn't very "masculine" either. And he's the total opposite of her. He wears trashy cloths, have the jesus look (without beard) not social, don't drink, VERY childish. We ended on a very high note and class ended.
Next day during lunch our class sat at different tables which we usually dont. So I just made a light joke about it while maybe, half of the class were at the lockers getting their stuff for next period:
I just laughed it off and the rest of my mates just laughed and told me I got roasted etc, you know how it goes. But she still "humiliated" me in front of everyone. FYI, I know what she said is not the case, i'm very liked in the class, I get much attention from the rest of the girls they start convos and what not. All the boys like me. Half of the guys in our class is good mates to me (4/8).
But here's where it gets tricky. The past 1.5 years I've made a HUGE improvement in my social skills and awarness. I can tell if a girl is being serious or just joking most of the times. But this girl, I saw that she was geniune mad, she didn't flinch or anything then just walked past me to our next period. The rest of our class just thought it was a joke and brushed it off, as did I for the moment trying to save face. But I can't help to think about what I've done wrong here, or if she's trying my frame or if im just REALLY over-exaggerating this situation.
Thanks for any feedback, cheers!
