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So, I randomly ended up meeting this really cute girl in an event who turned out to be former best friend of my first ex (psycho). Somehow we got along but she had a a dick boyfriend. I left her for a while. She just broke up recently.
Today, she talked about how she got into a fight about Chester Bennington's suicide and how she thought it was selfish of him and he didn't really care about his children. Her conviction made me thing something was off and I asked if she had lost someone close to her. She told her dad had committed suicide when she was 10 and her family had struggled ever since then. How she was close to her dad, etc. all came out. At this point i felt like a dick because I was just hearing the audiobook 'Art of Seduction' on the part where it talks about finding the role of a girl's father in her life. Though I did comfort her to the best of abilities, I gradually managed to shift it to relationships and eventually to sex where we discussed the craziest things we've done.
I asked her about the greatest sex she's ever had and she said she hasn't had great sex yet. All the people were selfish and not giving. I talk further using all knowledge I learnt from this site. My question is, how do I lead it from text to an actual scenario where this happens without it coming across as abrupt? Also, after that backstory.. is this a dick move? (I'm kind of a guy with conscience)
Today, she talked about how she got into a fight about Chester Bennington's suicide and how she thought it was selfish of him and he didn't really care about his children. Her conviction made me thing something was off and I asked if she had lost someone close to her. She told her dad had committed suicide when she was 10 and her family had struggled ever since then. How she was close to her dad, etc. all came out. At this point i felt like a dick because I was just hearing the audiobook 'Art of Seduction' on the part where it talks about finding the role of a girl's father in her life. Though I did comfort her to the best of abilities, I gradually managed to shift it to relationships and eventually to sex where we discussed the craziest things we've done.
I asked her about the greatest sex she's ever had and she said she hasn't had great sex yet. All the people were selfish and not giving. I talk further using all knowledge I learnt from this site. My question is, how do I lead it from text to an actual scenario where this happens without it coming across as abrupt? Also, after that backstory.. is this a dick move? (I'm kind of a guy with conscience)
