Calls & Texts Girl says need to know me more before going out

[vicknick]

Picked up a girl and have some chat, then I got her number and continue texted her. When trying to invite her out, she say "I still don't know much about you yet, I need to know more about a person before going out with him".

What does this mean? Should I just keep texting her and share more about my story, so that she won't feel I'm dangerous or total stranger?

 

[Fuck This]

Go for a QUICK informational daytime coffee/lunch date. Set a time constraint and tell her "here is your chance to ask me any thing you want" 15-20 minutes...

 

[sunnygirl]

Go for a QUICK informational daytime coffee/lunch date. Set a time constraint and tell her "here is your chance to ask me any thing you want" 15-20 minutes...

Agree with this,
OP tell her that you wanna do a vibe check and just meet up at the local coffee shop. Have you guys phone or video called at all?

 

[Chase]

To second @sunflowergirl04-

It sounds like she wants you to stop texting her and call her on the phone, @vicknick.

"I don't know much about you yet" does not mean "text me your life story."

She needs connection, not facts. You won't do that with text messages.

Get her on the phone, ask her how her day is, get her laughing, deep dive her, relate to her, share a little bit about yourself, just enough to intrigue her. Then set up the date.

See this article:

Tactics Tuesdays: The Bonding Phone Call

The bonding phone call lets you build a stronger emotional connection with a girl you’ve just met. If you need a boost before the date, this is it. Contents 1. Do Phone Calls Work? 2. Role of the Bonding Call 3. How to Make a Bonding Phone Call Pitfalls to Avoid What to Discuss 4. What to Do...

www.girlschase.com

Or this video:

Calling Girls Still Works (And You Should Be Doing It!)

No one calls girls anymore. Right?Yet, this medium remains as POWERFUL as ever… for the few guys still daring enough to use it.ADVANCED TRAINING: How to Use Pho

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Chase

 

[vicknick]

Agree with this,
OP tell her that you wanna do a vibe check and just meet up at the local coffee shop. Have you guys phone or video called at all?

No didn't call. Calling girls before date seems like too much for the girl before sleeping together, at least for my culture.

 

[Skills]

No didn't call. Calling girls before date seems like too much for the girl before sleeping together, at least for my culture.

correct specially for gen z, listen post convos..... I GUARANTEE YOU! you did not soft close at high point, your texting structure off.... post convo...