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Girl talking about herself too much

Duff

Space Monkey
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Hi guys

I know its a good thing to get girl talking about herself and make her the topic of the conversation, but what do u make of her not being curious about you but just talking about herself?

It happend with me even with a girl where we both liked eachother a lot, and when we finally talked she just kept going on for so long, I was kinda bored and lost, is it just inexperience of girls, since I am 20 still, or is it even a good sign?
 

rockstar

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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well, what’s your goal? if you want to fuck her then you don’t need to talk about yourself much (though you should probably share a good story or two to paint a little bit of a picture of yourself).

you could point it out if you want. if the girl really likes you she’ll make an effort to ask you more questions

some young girls are just really self-focused. if you don’t like that, the best option might be to just filter them out.
 
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Duff

Space Monkey
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well, what’s your goal? if you want to fuck her then you don’t need to talk about yourself much (though you should probably share a good story or two to paint a little bit of a picture of yourself).

you could point it out if you want. if the girl really likes you she’ll make an effort to ask you more questions

some young girls are just really self-focused. if you don’t like that, the best option might be to just filter them out.
I got you, I should myb point it out, though I dont think there is need I just get a bad feelign when she doesnt get the sense herself to ask about you anyways, and just keep talking about herself, though I also think I may be reading this all wrong and it could be a good sign and not a bad one so I want to hear other people thoughts
 

TwoNameGame

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I just get a bad feelign when she doesnt get the sense herself to ask about you anyways
People feel closer to those who they open to.

I recall a field report where a seducer got a chick on deep dive to talk about herself for 5 minutes. When he asked her if she wanted to know anything about him, she replied something like, "I feel like I already know you so well."

Investment, comfort, potential arousal. Just keep it productive.
 
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