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So a girl I hooked up with told me after the 2nd time of hooking up through a text she has feelings for me, although I asked multiple times and attempted to screen knowing if she was capable of handling a monogamous relationship. That isn't the only problem she lied about not being a virgin the first time and came around telling the truth the second time. After receiving the text that she is falling for me I told her in a very polite but subtle way we are looking for different things, she recently contacted me again asking if I was cutting her off I tried explaining that if we continue to talk the feelings she has towards me wont disappear and how being friends does not work. Explained that I am to busy for a girlfriend, and she clearly wasn't capable about what we agreed upon so not speaking would be the best in not hurting her. (My texts did start to get a bit into paragraphs due to the reason she could not accept the fact she would be hurt pursing something that she isn't going to get) After explaining to her my reasons she responded saying that I am hurting her by telling her what I did, I didn't bother to respond did I make the right choice? What is the best way to let a girl know when its time to call it quits, and how to deal with constant pursuit regardless of explanations? Any help would be appreciated! ~ Novacane