Girlfriend thinks I'm a douchebag?

[ChrisCassi]

So I'm dating this girl for about 3 months, but we were best friends for about 3 years before hand.

Anyway, she's always thought I was a dick, mainly cuz I'm an ass to her friends who don't have much commen sense or always to piss me off by trying to take my girlfriend away from me.

Basically, I don't deal with their bullshit. Anyway, she thinks I'm an ass, but she's always thought that.

Is that a problem? I mean I can be nice when I want, and I don't have a problem making friends. I just don't deal with BS from her friends.

Obviously it's not a problem to her, I satisfy her emotionally and sexually exetremely well. She's really invested in me.

 

[Green Tea]

Obviously it's not a problem to her, I satisfy her emotionally and sexually exetremely well. She's really invested in me.

Not an expert, but I think you are answering your own question here...

 

[Marty]

ChrisCassi:

I think it's not a problem. If anything, it's good that you show you don't suffer fools gladly.

See this article: Tell If a Girl Likes You: Are Her Walls Up, Or Down? Specifically, this paragraph:

I may be biased, but I tend to consider the, "I like him as a friend," sentiment to be a fake kind of liking.

Reason being, a man a woman likes as a partner or a prospect gets so much more respect than a man who's only her friend (and unworthy of her partnership) that it's not even funny. Try putting a girl's lifelong platonic guy pal up against her lover of two months for whom she has super intense feelings and let me know whose side she's going to take. Right -- it's the guy she's going to bed with. At best, she's going to tell her paramour not to hurt her guy pal -- because she's going to consider her lover strong, and her guy friend weak.