Girlfriend with tight vagina is making erection difficult

[kristian]

Hi folks!

Since we got together almost four years ago, our sex has been great. I still find her attractive and when we get it on, we really have passionate lovemaking.

But it has also been challenging because I have to be super hard to penetrate her. You see, she is very tight and even when she is really wet, my penis and her vagina seem to not match as much.

If I am only halfway hard, I cannot penetrate and that puts too much pressure on me - which has started a negative spiral. Just the thought that "I have to be super hard, or else I cannot perform" takes away the delight of sex. I am considering viagra, just to take away that pressure off me because I know that this has become a more mental issue than ever before.

Do you have any tips to make you comfortable again and take off that pressure?

 

[Fuck This]

Try different positions...With her Hips elevated and legs spread wide as you stand on your feet at the end of the bed. Just seems to open things up...

 

[Vision]

Stop trying to get to sex so quickly...

1. Have her give you a blowjob until you're hard enough

Lots of girls get really turned on from giving blowjobs, especially as you get thicker and harder in her mouth.

Plus the saliva will help you penetrate her.

2. Rub your dick through her vagina lips until she's wetter and you're harder

Basically, have her lay down like you're fucking her but instead of fucking her... just put your dick between her pussy lips and rock back and forth like you're fucking her.

Then test it every once in awhile where instead of rocking up between the lips, you go inside of her a bit.

This creates unpredictable reward and can get a girl really turned on, craving your dick.

Plus, you get her wetter, you get harder, and there's less pressure on you since you're driving her crazy and turning her on, all while making her think you're purposely doing it just to drive her wild... while you're actually doing it cause your dick isn't quite there yet.

This works, try it.

3. Lift those legs up when you penetrate

Make sure you're going in at a good angle. The best is usually when her legs are up in the air, ime.

Like what Fuck This said, try a bunch of different things with position.