Girls agree to set up date but then flake

[razir110]

Hi all,

So this has been plaguing me a lot lately. I cold approach, we talk, i ask her out she give me a date, we set up the venue and time and part ways.

Then the day of the date she cancels or ghosts me. It seems that the fact she agreed to the date means nothing actually.

Is it bc my approach is too platonic and she sees me as a nice guy?

I suspect my conversation should be more edgy and sexual.

Have you gents had this?

 

[Higher]

I assume this is daygame.

I dont know how good you are, so can you outline the in-person interaction a bit better? E.g. how do you approach her? What do you talk about? For how long? Hows her body language?

Also, id not set up venue and time in person, id leave that to a later stage (follow Skills guide for texting).

I suspect you might be setting too strong an expectation.

 

[whiteknight]

That's a flake and it is a natural part of game. Check this article out from Chase: https://www.girlschase.com/article/girls-flake-less-your-value-scarcity-them-rises

 

[TomInHo]

Hi all,

So this has been plaguing me a lot lately. I cold approach, we talk, i ask her out she give me a date, we set up the venue and time and part ways.

Then the day of the date she cancels or ghosts me. It seems that the fact she agreed to the date means nothing actually.

Is it bc my approach is too platonic and she sees me as a nice guy?

I suspect my conversation should be more edgy and sexual.

Have you gents had this?

How far out did you set up the dates and how is your follow up over text?