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Girls are too attractive, I cannot concentrate on a seduction process

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Space Monkey
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Hello guys I just have the most hilarious problem on my hands right now.

I've gotten so good with my day game approach that I can basically have one date every day on average, which means some days it's just two dates, some of those are instant dates, some of those from recent approaches and some of those from approaches couple of days before.

You might remember me as a super Spam approach guy, which took efficiency and dedication, I just was not calibrated correctly, but trust me, making 1,500 approaches a month takes all kinds of skill, however uneffective they were (1 date per 100 approaches).

So with your help, I have remade myself into a guy who gets two three dates from 1-2hr approach session, which is about 30 approaches, which is about 20 times more effective than what I was doing in september.

And now to the current problem.

I get more and more gorgeous girls on my dates, and by gorgeous I hope you understand that I mean top 1% world class gorgeous. Seriously, when I watch Western Day game YouTube videos, those are Maybe fours and fives out of 10 by the standards of Moscow Metro.

And I'm not only talking about beauty, there's also a question of world class charisma , their beauty is not static , it's not a photo shoot Beauty , it's just insane magnetic attractiveness . It's the way they're beautiful faces move , it's the humor, it's the life experience that they have , it's all in all the most high quality girls the world can offer .

So the problem is, when I get them to the dates I get absolutely lost. I don't get shy, I don't forget to touch them, but I absolutely start acting like giddy fan. It's kind of the same when I first got to some of the most elite wedding venues in Moscow, I'm acting like give me a minute I'm taking it all in.

So how do you think can one get rid of this problem? Will it just go away when I fuck five of those kinds of girls? Or is there a specific psychological technique to suppress the influence of her beauty and charisma on me remembering a seduction process?
 

Chad Tyrone

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KJ Francis

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Given how recent and brief it's been this far, with that volume of exposure, I would expect you'll desensitize over the short term and also develop solid outcome independence.

Sounds like getting giddy over catching snowflakes on your tongue. If they keep on falling, I think you'll be just fine.
 

Will_V

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Hello guys I just have the most hilarious problem on my hands right now.

I've gotten so good with my day game approach that I can basically have one date every day on average, which means some days it's just two dates, some of those are instant dates, some of those from recent approaches and some of those from approaches couple of days before.

You might remember me as a super Spam approach guy, which took efficiency and dedication, I just was not calibrated correctly, but trust me, making 1,500 approaches a month takes all kinds of skill, however uneffective they were (1 date per 100 approaches).

So with your help, I have remade myself into a guy who gets two three dates from 1-2hr approach session, which is about 30 approaches, which is about 20 times more effective than what I was doing in september.

And now to the current problem.

I get more and more gorgeous girls on my dates, and by gorgeous I hope you understand that I mean top 1% world class gorgeous. Seriously, when I watch Western Day game YouTube videos, those are Maybe fours and fives out of 10 by the standards of Moscow Metro.

And I'm not only talking about beauty, there's also a question of world class charisma , their beauty is not static , it's not a photo shoot Beauty , it's just insane magnetic attractiveness . It's the way they're beautiful faces move , it's the humor, it's the life experience that they have , it's all in all the most high quality girls the world can offer .

So the problem is, when I get them to the dates I get absolutely lost. I don't get shy, I don't forget to touch them, but I absolutely start acting like giddy fan. It's kind of the same when I first got to some of the most elite wedding venues in Moscow, I'm acting like give me a minute I'm taking it all in.

So how do you think can one get rid of this problem? Will it just go away when I fuck five of those kinds of girls? Or is there a specific psychological technique to suppress the influence of her beauty and charisma on me remembering a seduction process?

Glad to hear your seduction process is getting more refined!

Sounds like you're someone that can easily get overstimulated - have you tried meditating? I find it helps with lowering all kinds of emotional arousal.
 
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isildur1

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Glad to hear your seduction process is getting more refined!

Sounds like you're someone that can easily get overstimulated - have you tried meditating? I find it helps with lowering all kinds of emotional arousal.
Agree 100 percent op is definitely overthinking a lot - needs to just enjoy the dates if these women find him attractive enough to go directly to his place then the attraction phase is there which is a huge positive 95 percent of the battle is already won - maybe this overthinking is taking him away from the present moment and that’s why he’s getting lmr- women can sense easily if a guy isn’t mentally present or is panicking I’ve been called out for it numerous times myself.
 
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