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In my school (8th and 9th grade) I’ll be in the halls or in class and sometimes girls I somewhat know, just not that well just see me and say “hey, Young” even when they definitely didn’t need to say anything. This is evident with a lot of girls at our school talking to guys.
What exactly does this mean?
How do you respond to it to build attraction?
How do you handle yourself in the future after these situations?
Currently, I either respond with saying their name enthusiastically, hey back, mostly ignore their interaction, or say yep, that’s me (as if they said something stupid/common sense)
One thing I’ve found is that if you say hey to them first, they hate it. They don’t make it noticeable on purpose, but they are definitely not near as positive about the interaction if I say hey just to say hey just like they would. I determined this to be because it’s just feminine BS game, and since they see me as a man, they are disappointed that I follow their lead and play the game.or it could be that they intended on saying hey to be a hint for me to talk to them, and I didn’t get t.
I’d really be interested to see what you guys think is a good way to respond to this when it’s girls you would like to build attraction with
What exactly does this mean?
How do you respond to it to build attraction?
How do you handle yourself in the future after these situations?
Currently, I either respond with saying their name enthusiastically, hey back, mostly ignore their interaction, or say yep, that’s me (as if they said something stupid/common sense)
One thing I’ve found is that if you say hey to them first, they hate it. They don’t make it noticeable on purpose, but they are definitely not near as positive about the interaction if I say hey just to say hey just like they would. I determined this to be because it’s just feminine BS game, and since they see me as a man, they are disappointed that I follow their lead and play the game.or it could be that they intended on saying hey to be a hint for me to talk to them, and I didn’t get t.
I’d really be interested to see what you guys think is a good way to respond to this when it’s girls you would like to build attraction with