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Hey guys... I've been doing some daygame approaches lately, and I've noticed that when I am approaching the really hot girls that I really want, almost all of them invariably have boyfriends.
I'm not sure how much of what they are saying is just an excuse because they don't like me. However, I feel its at least partially true because some of them I add on IG and their profile picture literally has them with their BF. And another girl I met on a subway was transiting over to watching the sport game her boyfriend was playing in.
Which leads me to think that in daygame... if you are approaching the hottest girls... there is not much of a point in trying to make the approach optimal (i.e. going direct vs situational), because the biggest limiting factor will be availability. If 3/4 girls hot girls you approach are simply unavailable, then you are only left with the remaining 1/4. Of course, you also need to actually be able to convert the remaining girls to a date. So you have to just play a big volume game and approach as many girls as possible to even possibly have a chance.
I don't see this phenomenon in online dating or nightgame (assuming you see shes not with her BF), because there is at least an understanding that people there have an intent to meet others.
I only have about 100 approaches, so it could also be the way I am coming across in my vibe and approach. But this is just something I've noticed with very limited data.
Love to get what you guys think about this.
I'm not sure how much of what they are saying is just an excuse because they don't like me. However, I feel its at least partially true because some of them I add on IG and their profile picture literally has them with their BF. And another girl I met on a subway was transiting over to watching the sport game her boyfriend was playing in.
Which leads me to think that in daygame... if you are approaching the hottest girls... there is not much of a point in trying to make the approach optimal (i.e. going direct vs situational), because the biggest limiting factor will be availability. If 3/4 girls hot girls you approach are simply unavailable, then you are only left with the remaining 1/4. Of course, you also need to actually be able to convert the remaining girls to a date. So you have to just play a big volume game and approach as many girls as possible to even possibly have a chance.
I don't see this phenomenon in online dating or nightgame (assuming you see shes not with her BF), because there is at least an understanding that people there have an intent to meet others.
I only have about 100 approaches, so it could also be the way I am coming across in my vibe and approach. But this is just something I've noticed with very limited data.
Love to get what you guys think about this.