Give Give Give Ask: Why I Have Adopted This Approach

[Troy]

2 books come to mind as I write this post. That is:

"Jab Jab Jab, Right Hook" by Gary Vaynerchuk
"The Go Giver" by Bob Burg and John David Mann

Both books are inspirational to me and I practice what they teach on a daily basis. This is just a Friday motivational piece and my random thoughts on how I view GirlsChase and one of the reasons I keep coming back. Everytime I come on the boards to ask a question, BEFORE I ask my question to get help from others, I always look around at all the boards for topics I am:

1. Intermediate to Advanced knowledgeable in
2. Have experience handling
3. And I know I can properly explain myself on that topic

And then I respond to that post. The basis of the books is that those who seek to give value first, in excess of what they are asking, will be the ones most successful. I always make an attempt to help at least 3 persons on here before I ask my question.

I just want to say I really like how guys on here take the time out to help each other with their questions. GirlsChase practices the mantra of give, give, and give some more.

It would be great to see this continue for decades to come. As I evolve, I believe I will always come back here to answer posts and help other guys out. Giving to others does not have to be monetary, it can also be time, wisdom and experiences. And I am glad the boards practices that.

Overtime I plan on giving even more. My goal would be, for every 1 question I ask, I help at least 5 other persons out with their questions. Thats just me. Everyone can set their own goals.

Cheers to GC staff and the members for making this place awesome!

Troy

 

[Skjöldr]

Same, honestly, if you see the larger picture, as a beginner you ask 100% questions, then you become intermediate and it is 50/50 and advanced almost 100% giving advice. However, i feel like nerd on this forum if i give advice and i am not consistently taking action. I had a low period from oct 2020-dec 2020 with my results and i felt self-conscious and really bad about giving advice. But yeah, i don't consider myself "advanced" yet, but i am atleast intermediate and i rarely ask questions anymore, if i do, i do it privately with select people. I guess it is also because my attitude has changed to "let's find out" so if i have question like "will saying X work" or "do girls like when you do Y" i won't really ask the forum, i will just go out and try it out on women in real life. And i think everybody else should do that. That's my official disclaimer right here to anyone taking my advice: Don't take it for gospel. Try it out yourself and see if it works.

Besides that, i have also just become very intuitive. I cultivate my intuition by just saying and doing what feels like the right thing in the moment. The correct action to take now, the best thing to say next. Good game to me is always knowing right thing to say or do next. The perfect dance between two people. You do A, she does B, you do C, she does D and before you know it your P is in her V haha. That's how i see it!

Another thought i have had recently is that i have internalised soo many things now that i would have to be caught with the hand in the cookie jar before i can really say what i am doing these days. If you go "Ah! Pause right there! Explain what you did right there!" i could easily explain it. But idk, if you just asked be in general terms like "what is your process with girls" or "what do you say to girls" i would have no idea. But i can assure you that you can break down what i do, technically, step by step, and there are names for all them like "oh you did a cold read" or "oh you passed her shit test by agreeing and amplifying" or "oh you just framed yourself as the prize using cocky funny" or whatever. But to me... it is just beginning to flow like that. So, idk, don't ask me what i do! Because i have no idea but feel free to ask me what you should do in a situation or ask me a question and sure i can help you out! That's how it works for me now

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

"Jab Jab Jab, Right Hook" by Gary Vaynerchuk

there's also "PLC1 PLC2 PLC3 VSL" by Jeff Walker.

You will love this book also if you're into internet marketing... it's the #1 secret behind my success in business:

Amazon.com: Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams eBook : Walker, Jeff: Kindle Store

Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams - Kindle edition by Walker, Jeff. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and...

www.amazon.com

 

[Troy]

there's also "PLC1 PLC2 PLC3 VSL" by Jeff Walker.

You will love this book also if you're into internet marketing... it's the #1 secret behind my success in business:

Amazon.com: Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams eBook : Walker, Jeff: Kindle Store

Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams - Kindle edition by Walker, Jeff. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and...

www.amazon.com

Wonderful! I created an excel sheet back in 2019 of the top 1,000 books I intend to read in my lifetime. I missed this one so I am definitely adding it to the list now. Yep it has good reviews, you recommended it (great) and I am into internet marketing.

Cool!!!

 

[Warped Mindless]

there's also "PLC1 PLC2 PLC3 VSL" by Jeff Walker.

You will love this book also if you're into internet marketing... it's the #1 secret behind my success in business:

Amazon.com: Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams eBook : Walker, Jeff: Kindle Store

Launch (Updated & Expanded Edition): How to Sell Almost Anything Online, Build a Business You Love, and Live the Life of Your Dreams - Kindle edition by Walker, Jeff. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and...

www.amazon.com

Yep, the “give before asking” is the same in sales.

People are so skeptical now that they want to ensure a person is the real deal and can help them before they are willing to shell out any money.