Glasses and Sunglasses

[Just_Dave]

Wearing glasses and sunglasses can really enhance your style when you're out and about, but it can also relieve pressure for you during an interaction. Whenever a girl catches you off guard and ask you a tough question, clean your glasses.

Example: Sitting in a cafe
Girl: So, do you come here to pick up girl's a lot.
Me: *Takes off glasses and start cleaning up while thinking of a good response* "Hmm...makes you say that?"
Girl: *tries to find an answer*

Just like instead of saying "um, well, uh, or other words people use when they're stumped" I just take them off and clean those babies. This why I'm showing dominance by answering the question on my own time. I turn the question back on her, and she had to figure out why she even asked. I also use body language to my advantage, I slide them off in a cool, suave, and sexy fashion. The whole time keeping control of the interaction by using a pregnant pause.

Notes: You don't want to fumble or stammer over your words and glasses. This technique is designed to give you time to breathe and look for a proper response.

Stay sharp,

Just Dave

 

[Thinkingenigma]

I wear glasses, so I'll definitely keep this in mind next time I'm out.

 

[Just_Dave]

I wear glasses, so I'll definitely keep this in mind next time I'm out.

Sounds good man, and let me know how it works out for you. And if you find any cool ways to tweak it let me know that as well.

Dave

 

[Light]

Hi Just Dave,

Just wanted to say thank you for sharing!

I don't wear glasses, but I know a friend who does, and I've been scratching my head how he can use that to his advantage, as he cannot wear contact lenses.

This is really useful. Thank you.


Light

 

[Chase]

As an aside, you can actually use just about any kind of personal maintenance in place of glasses cleaning for this if you're not bespectacled:

• Cleaning your boots
• Cleaning your fingernails
• Rubbing your tongue around in front of your teeth
• Dusting off your clothes
• Leaning back or adjusting your position

Chase

 

[Just_Dave]

As an aside, you can actually use just about any kind of personal maintenance in place of glasses cleaning for this if you're not bespectacled:

• Cleaning your boots
• Cleaning your fingernails
• Rubbing your tongue around in front of your teeth
• Dusting off your clothes
• Leaning back or adjusting your position

Chase

I've used dusting off clothes, and leaning back quite a bit. With the right facial expressions you can actually get her more engaged in the conversation.

 

[kneek0]

Very good tip dave, I also notice a lot more attention from females when I am wearing stylish shades

 

[Just_Dave]

Very good tip dave, I also notice a lot more attention from females when I am wearing stylish shades

Thanks for stopping by Kneek,

Yes girls love stylish shades, and actually to break the touch barrier further, when a girls wearing sunglasses simply stick your hand out and say "Let me see those." *This is best when you moved her alone* I did this on my current girlfriend when we first met. I gave her a sexy smile and kept the conversation going, she later told me that was the moment she knew she wanted to kiss me.

 

[Rationalis]

Excellent tips. I love these. My favorite is adjusting my sleeves/rolling them up if I am wearing a buttondown shirt at the time.

 

[Jay]

This is a great strategy Dave.

I hadn't actually thought about the glasses example before now because I don't wear glasses and I tend to forget sunglasses are on top of my head during conversations (obviously I am not wearing sunglasses while conversing with a girl unless I would be forced to squint under the blinding rays of the sun otherwise, and in that situation I would simply ask the girl to go somewhere where I wasn't being blinded anyway), but repositioning or adjusting a piece of my attire while I think of something to say is something that I do all the time. The key for me was not doing it nervously (no fiddling) and I tend to avoid stroking my chin, rubbing my eye, or touching my face in any sort of way, and I even avoid running my hand through my hair, though that can be pulled off in this situation if you are able to do it slowly/sexily and accompany it with eye contact and a sly smile like you know exactly what to say but are waiting to share it with her. I also like to avoid adjusting the collar of my shirt. Fixing rolled up sleeves on a button down works pretty well, but from what I have experienced and observed collar adjustment on any shirt in a situation where a girl is testing you with a pressing question nonverbally screams nervousness and loss of control.

 

[Just_Dave]

@Light
Glad to have been of service!

@Jay
This is where body language becomes a tremendous factor, I directly turn the question back on her. "Why do you ask that?" while slowly cocking my head back with a skeptical look. I'm using more refined techniques and tactics for myself these days, one technique "ebony and ivery" I fire off the tests before she can. Keeping her at gun point (edge) to not test me cause I'm not in the mood, I'm here for a good time.

@Rationalis
Thanks for the input and stopping by.