Go for it now or hold off?

[ChrisCassi]

So there is the girl in my class I have a little thing for, and I'm planning on asking her out very soon. Now, I had a thing with her best friend before, so I asked the friend if it would be okay if I asked the current girl out. The friend said it was all fine and dandy, but if I legitimately wanted this girl to say yes, I should hold off for a bit, but I seem like the guy that asks when I feel like it(as that's what I did with the friend).

So, my question is should I go for this current girl now, or take the friends advice and hold off? I know Chase said to disregard any advice girls have on this, but I figured I'd see what others thought in this particular case.

Only time I get to really interact with this girl at lunch, and that's when all our friends are around. Not really the best time to ask. I could ask her out through text, but I don't have her number so it'd have to be through Facebook, but this girl seems like the type who would respond better to being asked in person, but I can't really get her alone at school.

Also, when I brought this up the friend(about not being able to ask in person etc.)she had some from information from I could tell(maybe that she knew what the answer would be?), but she said it wasn't her place to tell me.

Anyway, what are y'all's thoughts?

 

[Tyme2k]

Do you think she didn't tell her friend now? In hindsight you should have done it like this:

As soon as you had interest in this girl - APPROACH regardless of history
Run game as usual, she will shit test you "didn't you date so and so" "I thought you liked xxxx" you pass the tests like, "I'm talking to you" "she liked me i think but more about you"
THEN if there is something between you and you can clearly tell shes into you you tell the other girl whats up(I personally wouldn't do this and rather her find out I'm having sex with her, self amusement)

In the meantime read viewtopic.php?f=2&t=1563 let this girl see you with and/or hitting on other girls. If she thinks other girls find you attractive she will want you.

 

[ChrisCassi]

I probably would have gone with exactly what you said, but I posted the situation in a comment article Chase made awhile back when I street just sparked, and he said it would be best to tall to the friend first, and letting her know since I had asked her out previously before asking the current girl out since they are best friends.

 

[dvjackson]

I don't think asking out via facebook/text is that bad, as long as you keep it casual, make it sound like you're just going to hang out rather than go on a Date.
You could always just be direct and say "hey I'd ask you this IRL but I only ever see you at lunch..."