Go for the date? Or go to her house/my house? Unsure!

[EliAFutbol]

Not sure if this is the right place to post this but here goes...

So I just met this hot asian girl, great tits and body, as I was out eating with my parents. She gave me very strong indications of interest, would flirt with me, and even gave me a drink "free of charge". I had been working on my fundamentals for over half a year now and I was dressed really well and I created good non-kino tension.

Anyways nothing came of it that day because my I was eating with my parents and that was a big cockblock. A few days later though I matched with her on tinder. Here's the transcript of the convo:

Me: That was a juicy steak *two water splashy emojis* (LOL)
HA: thanks i worked super hard on it
Me: Glad to see I already gold a special place in you after having just met
HA: highkey wanted to give you my number but you were with your parents so i didn't
Me: I could tell *winky emoji*
Me: Whats ur #?
HA:*two smiley emojis* XXX-XXX-XXXX

Over text:

Me: What are you doing this weekend?
HA: well i work all day today and tmr and then i'm going out with some girls from work and then working all day sunday because i pretty much live at (restaurant)
Me: Haha what time are your shifts?
HA: today i start at 11:30 and then again at 5:45
Me: Well im going on a trip wednesday (im actually moving, still technically a trip ) so make something happen before then
HA: i'm free monday after 4ish

Ok so everything is going good up to here but I am a beginner and I am not sure whether or not to go for the date or push to go to her house? I appreciate any help here as I try and get my first lay.

PS she is 19 (according to her tinder) and I am 18

 

[Tony D]

You can just ask to come see her place, but use some reason. Ask her if her place is great, or awesome. I once went to a girls place because she said she had great flooring. "I have to see that!"

There's nothing wrong with a date outside either. But make sure you escalate and kiss her. Don't wait till you're on the doorstep.

 

[EliAFutbol]

Update:

(12 hours later, I was busy at work and totally forgot to respond)
Me: perfect ill come by whats ur address?
(the next day)
HA: i got a notification you text me but no message??
Me: that weird can u read this
HA: yep
Me: okay monday works
Me: ill come by

After this no reply for about a day. She said she had a busy work schedule but I think she might be flaking. Trying to keep a non needy mindset, it helped to go out and meet new girls yesterday to help that.

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Eli,

Just to answer your initial question, I feel that meeting her first time in her home is a little bit advanced. The safer option if you're not yet there, is to invite her on a date outside first, but with a plan to move to an isolated place later (her bedroom, for instance). Your goal is to establish a good contact, have a good connection, some sexy vibe, lots of touch, before moving to her place (or yours). Best is to have an idea where she lives, then choose a nearby date spot, so as to make the pull smoothly and easily later.

This is my baseline date template anyway.

Seppuku