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When I've approached girls in the past, I've limited to myself to just approaching women by themselves and even that was intimidating for me if I'm being honest. I took a boot camp earlier this year which helped proved to myself that I can do this despite all the anxieties and other mental bs running in the background.
But I'm still not sure how to handle girls in groups. I'll just share what I think is correct in each situation and you can comment somewhere between all or none of it.
Day Game:
Night Game (Bar):
Night Game (Club):
Only experience was on boot camp. All we did was really just do quick approaches and try to stay in conversation if possible. Attention spans are even shorter than day gaming a big city, so it's quite difficult (although day game in that environment seems harder). My strategy would be the same as bar night game except you probably don't need to engage everybody in the group if it's a loud environment, just the people she hangs around the most.
In all situations, I presume it's better to assume the girl wants to go someplace alone with you rather than asking her? Or am I off base? Ie "Let's go over there, it's too loud/crowed/etc here". What are some signs that she is ready to be isolated?
Thanks for any advice handed out; I'd like to get this handled so I don't have these weird limitations that hold me back.
But I'm still not sure how to handle girls in groups. I'll just share what I think is correct in each situation and you can comment somewhere between all or none of it.
Day Game:
- Girl with 1 friend: Engage both girls on the open. Subtly make clear who you're interested in by reserving most of the "fun" conversation for your target girl, giving her most of your attention, and keeping nice, platonic conversation with the other one.
- Girl with 2 or more friends: This is tricky, because I tend to do worse with groups the more people there are in it. I guess you engage the group and eventually ask a girl in the group what everybody's relationship is to each other. Hopefully everybody isn't boredly looking at me (engaged in their own conversation) and I can isolate the girl from the group. It seems like it would be very hard to get a group to stop when I can't consistently get women by themselves to stop.
Night Game (Bar):
- Girl with 1 friend (girls don't go by themselves to bars): Same as day game but in this situation it's more socially acceptable to isolate (if the friend likes you) because other people are around.
- Girl with 2 or more firneds: Same as day game.
Night Game (Club):
Only experience was on boot camp. All we did was really just do quick approaches and try to stay in conversation if possible. Attention spans are even shorter than day gaming a big city, so it's quite difficult (although day game in that environment seems harder). My strategy would be the same as bar night game except you probably don't need to engage everybody in the group if it's a loud environment, just the people she hangs around the most.
In all situations, I presume it's better to assume the girl wants to go someplace alone with you rather than asking her? Or am I off base? Ie "Let's go over there, it's too loud/crowed/etc here". What are some signs that she is ready to be isolated?
Thanks for any advice handed out; I'd like to get this handled so I don't have these weird limitations that hold me back.
