Hey, so i am living in poland and was dating this girl for a month. Everything was going good , deep conversations , good successful dates , laughs , physical touch and one time we kissed. I liked her and she said she likes me too , she wanted to take things slow , to which i agreed. We both were looking for something serious, which was clear too. We had a movie date , and the next day she texts me , she dont see our future together and it is not going anywhere in future. She also said although i am great guy , she didn’t develop any romantic feelings for me. I am really confused what does this mean ? Why i got dumped after such a nice date with lots of hugs and holding hands?
Got dumped after a month of dating even though everything was going good !!
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It means you did not move fast enough.
A girl saying she wants to take things slow means nothing. Almost every girl uses that line.
I mean, no girl ever said "jeez we should skip right to the bedroom gymnastics!"
You've learnt an important lesson: move things towards intimacy as fast as you can (and she's comfortable with)
Harsh reality: girls are non-forgiving to guys who fail to make moves and lead them into intimacy, especially when they want it.
Not sure how salvageable it is based on what you described.
A girl saying she wants to take things slow means nothing. Almost every girl uses that line.
I mean, no girl ever said "jeez we should skip right to the bedroom gymnastics!"
You've learnt an important lesson: move things towards intimacy as fast as you can (and she's comfortable with)
Harsh reality: girls are non-forgiving to guys who fail to make moves and lead them into intimacy, especially when they want it.
Not sure how salvageable it is based on what you described.
Thank you James for your feedback . I agree , i have learnt an important lesson here and might have misinterpreted her signals. This was a result of my previous dating experience where a girl dumped me because she thought i wanted something quick . So learning from my mistakes.
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Welcome to the boards.
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Affirmative!! I am gonna check them for sure . Is there anything specific you would like to recommend me ? ( in relation with my situation)
Thank you again !!
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