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@Skills method! If you see anything that needs fixing, I would really appreciate your insight. I didn't really flirt, just kept moving forward since you should stop selling the customer after they agree right? I got 7 matches all early morning after swipe reset, unmatched one. Sent openers at 9:30am Saturday cause I was heading out for the day. Probably too early.
Out of 6 she was my 3rd choice. Three replies including her. Only she panned out. For non replies I put "That bad huh... I am sure you have redeeming qualities beyond your looks right?" 5 hours later. On second look maybe the followup to non answer was too negative, or needed a jk or something after the first sentence to make it playful. I got two other replies to follow up answer, neither panned out.
Me: Good morning (name). How are the guys treating you on here?
Her: Good morning!
What a load question. Let’s just say I’ve seen better days.
Her: How’s your experience here ?
(LR note: One hour later... I was out on foot all day, not glued to phone. From later conversation she actually had a lot of dating success, but also some stories of ridiculous dudes)
Her: I have to say sometime you just got a take chance, put yourself out there, be spontaneous.
(LR note: my short bio included I was visiting for weekend and looking for someone spontaneous)
Her: I did that on a random Wednesday, highlight of my summer so far. The vibes and conversations and everything else was amazing .
Me: That is good to hear you have evened it out and can enjoy the present moment! Personally I cannot complain. So tell me about yourself? What is bon vivant?
(Her bio already listed qualities like funny, kind, Bon vivant)
Her: Im pretty much, what you see is what you get, im pretty straight to point , no bullshit . Life is to short to beat around the bush. I’m down to earth, very understanding person, problems solver, I give great advice . I have fun where ever I am, I’m outgoing
Her: Im a executive in the government field
Me: Those are many great qualities (her name). You seem like someone worth getting to know. What area are you in? How about let's continue in person
Her: I live in (city)
Me: Which part? I am here for the day
Her: Currently (area) till 4. I will be back 4:30
I'm in (area)
It's near downtown
Bon vivant : Life of the party that enjoys the good things in life ( food and wine) refine tastes, well cultivated.
Me: Oh that's good you can allow yourself to enjoy life's pleasures. Sure we can meet around 5 then. Somewhere near you perhaps unless you have any cold drinks at home for a chat.
(LR note: I went straight for the pull because of how hard she was qualifying herself and "life is too short to beat around the bush" I.e. her own sexual frame. I also said "sure" as if she was proposing to meet rather than risking making another ask)
Her: Where are you staying in the city ?
Me: Near (area). You'd like to meet at mine?
(LR note: I purposefully interpreted this as counter logistical ask instead of resistance. Figured her place was not private or something, turned out correct)
Her: Sure, not far at all
Me: Oh great. I may be a little later and can let you know in a bit here, or send me your number to text
Her: ###-###-####
Me: Hello (name), how's 6:30 or so?
-Francis
Her: Yes it perfect
Me: Cool I'll give you a shout in an hour or so
Her: Noted
(LR note: this was awkward but I did not want to time my day to be honest. Could have explained I needed flexibility. Left it for two hours until 6)
Her: Are we still on for?
6:30 ?
Me: Hey I just got to (place for food). Need a quick shower. Could you do just after 7?
Her: Yes
(City) man likes to like to cancel without telling the other party.
Cya a 7:15
Me: Thanks! That's perfect. It's (#### address)
Her: So you will not tell me about yourself before ?
Me: (at 7:15pm exactly by accident lol I lost track of time a bit showering) Of course, we can get to know each other face to face
No answer then she showed up 15 mins or so later in a long light dress, low cut nice big tits. I was sitting on the porch. Exchanged pleasantries, invited her in. Airbnb had no living room, just kitchen table so she came in the bedroom very dim lighting no issue and sat on the bed. I took her coat and hung it.
Talked for a bit mostly about how she likes to travel without set schedules and asks locals what to see. I did not say much beyond encouraging her frames. She seemed to love to talk a lot. At one point she mentioned something about the water being cold somewhere relating it to the air conditioner next to us.
After a couple more minutes I asked if she was cold (she had crossed arms more looking cold than closed body language). I reached over her to turn it off very slowly and very close to her, then kissed her a bit and laid her back on the bed. She had been receptive to a few lingering leg touches during conversation and close talking. I extended the 10 minute rule to maybe 15 or a bit more since she was avoiding eye contact a bit but otherwise very comfortable chatting.
Zero LMR. Fucked for a while. I don't think she came which is rare for me. But right after it she said "wow".
Then she talked a shitload for a while. Here is a wild story not about her, but her friend who lives in her building. The girl lost both parents in her teens and eventually got married to a very well off guy in the middle east. Apparently she saw DYNAMITE in his house and several passports. Never asked questions. One day in an airport traveling alone she was stopped by INTERPOL and told the guy had a fake name. He was out of town and she left, never seeing him again. He sent two friends to her and STABBED her, left for dead in an alley so she would not testify. Ten years later she still walks around with a gun and a brass knuckle type of knife ring weapon. She caged her balcony and put up cameras. We should start a thread of wild pillow talk stories.
We were lying next to each other pillow talking but no touch actually. I think all her talking got her really comfortable or something because round two she was significantly wetter. Perhaps nervous first round having arrived for a hookup and not talking too long, given lack of eye contact noted above.
After that I pulled her in for a cuddle, full frontal skin contact and we were mutually touching and scratching each other's backs. She is a pretty adventurous girl who goes drinking with her guy friends at strip clubs. Girls like cuddles!
She would just not stop talking lol I did not even deep dive. Maybe most guys are not good active listeners or make counter points or something? I often get told I am easy to talk to. She also mentioned a lot of guys online are submissive and ask for her to dominate them. One was a CFO. She was confused why they ask her because she has no interest or indicator on her bio. Maybe because she is no nonsense and says what she thinks.
I had to eventually tell her I was tired and wake up really early. Walked her to the door, kissed goodnight and she wished me safe travels.
Out of 6 she was my 3rd choice. Three replies including her. Only she panned out. For non replies I put "That bad huh... I am sure you have redeeming qualities beyond your looks right?" 5 hours later. On second look maybe the followup to non answer was too negative, or needed a jk or something after the first sentence to make it playful. I got two other replies to follow up answer, neither panned out.
Me: Good morning (name). How are the guys treating you on here?
Her: Good morning!
What a load question. Let’s just say I’ve seen better days.
Her: How’s your experience here ?
(LR note: One hour later... I was out on foot all day, not glued to phone. From later conversation she actually had a lot of dating success, but also some stories of ridiculous dudes)
Her: I have to say sometime you just got a take chance, put yourself out there, be spontaneous.
(LR note: my short bio included I was visiting for weekend and looking for someone spontaneous)
Her: I did that on a random Wednesday, highlight of my summer so far. The vibes and conversations and everything else was amazing .
Me: That is good to hear you have evened it out and can enjoy the present moment! Personally I cannot complain. So tell me about yourself? What is bon vivant?
(Her bio already listed qualities like funny, kind, Bon vivant)
Her: Im pretty much, what you see is what you get, im pretty straight to point , no bullshit . Life is to short to beat around the bush. I’m down to earth, very understanding person, problems solver, I give great advice . I have fun where ever I am, I’m outgoing
Her: Im a executive in the government field
Me: Those are many great qualities (her name). You seem like someone worth getting to know. What area are you in? How about let's continue in person
Her: I live in (city)
Me: Which part? I am here for the day
Her: Currently (area) till 4. I will be back 4:30
I'm in (area)
It's near downtown
Bon vivant : Life of the party that enjoys the good things in life ( food and wine) refine tastes, well cultivated.
Me: Oh that's good you can allow yourself to enjoy life's pleasures. Sure we can meet around 5 then. Somewhere near you perhaps unless you have any cold drinks at home for a chat.
(LR note: I went straight for the pull because of how hard she was qualifying herself and "life is too short to beat around the bush" I.e. her own sexual frame. I also said "sure" as if she was proposing to meet rather than risking making another ask)
Her: Where are you staying in the city ?
Me: Near (area). You'd like to meet at mine?
(LR note: I purposefully interpreted this as counter logistical ask instead of resistance. Figured her place was not private or something, turned out correct)
Her: Sure, not far at all
Me: Oh great. I may be a little later and can let you know in a bit here, or send me your number to text
Her: ###-###-####
Me: Hello (name), how's 6:30 or so?
-Francis
Her: Yes it perfect
Me: Cool I'll give you a shout in an hour or so
Her: Noted
(LR note: this was awkward but I did not want to time my day to be honest. Could have explained I needed flexibility. Left it for two hours until 6)
Her: Are we still on for?
6:30 ?
Me: Hey I just got to (place for food). Need a quick shower. Could you do just after 7?
Her: Yes
(City) man likes to like to cancel without telling the other party.
Cya a 7:15
Me: Thanks! That's perfect. It's (#### address)
Her: So you will not tell me about yourself before ?
Me: (at 7:15pm exactly by accident lol I lost track of time a bit showering) Of course, we can get to know each other face to face
No answer then she showed up 15 mins or so later in a long light dress, low cut nice big tits. I was sitting on the porch. Exchanged pleasantries, invited her in. Airbnb had no living room, just kitchen table so she came in the bedroom very dim lighting no issue and sat on the bed. I took her coat and hung it.
Talked for a bit mostly about how she likes to travel without set schedules and asks locals what to see. I did not say much beyond encouraging her frames. She seemed to love to talk a lot. At one point she mentioned something about the water being cold somewhere relating it to the air conditioner next to us.
After a couple more minutes I asked if she was cold (she had crossed arms more looking cold than closed body language). I reached over her to turn it off very slowly and very close to her, then kissed her a bit and laid her back on the bed. She had been receptive to a few lingering leg touches during conversation and close talking. I extended the 10 minute rule to maybe 15 or a bit more since she was avoiding eye contact a bit but otherwise very comfortable chatting.
Zero LMR. Fucked for a while. I don't think she came which is rare for me. But right after it she said "wow".
Then she talked a shitload for a while. Here is a wild story not about her, but her friend who lives in her building. The girl lost both parents in her teens and eventually got married to a very well off guy in the middle east. Apparently she saw DYNAMITE in his house and several passports. Never asked questions. One day in an airport traveling alone she was stopped by INTERPOL and told the guy had a fake name. He was out of town and she left, never seeing him again. He sent two friends to her and STABBED her, left for dead in an alley so she would not testify. Ten years later she still walks around with a gun and a brass knuckle type of knife ring weapon. She caged her balcony and put up cameras. We should start a thread of wild pillow talk stories.
We were lying next to each other pillow talking but no touch actually. I think all her talking got her really comfortable or something because round two she was significantly wetter. Perhaps nervous first round having arrived for a hookup and not talking too long, given lack of eye contact noted above.
After that I pulled her in for a cuddle, full frontal skin contact and we were mutually touching and scratching each other's backs. She is a pretty adventurous girl who goes drinking with her guy friends at strip clubs. Girls like cuddles!
She would just not stop talking lol I did not even deep dive. Maybe most guys are not good active listeners or make counter points or something? I often get told I am easy to talk to. She also mentioned a lot of guys online are submissive and ask for her to dominate them. One was a CFO. She was confused why they ask her because she has no interest or indicator on her bio. Maybe because she is no nonsense and says what she thinks.
I had to eventually tell her I was tired and wake up really early. Walked her to the door, kissed goodnight and she wished me safe travels.
