Has anyone tried NLP during sex?

[MisterX]

Has anyone tried NLP during sex?


I'm talking about Neuro Linguistic Programing, if you don't know what that is then this question is not towards you.


I'm interested, if anyone has tried it with his girlfriend or regular sex partner (it doesn't work with one night stands).

Specifically has anyone used NLP anchoring every time your girl has and orgasm (by giving her oral, fingering or intercourse), with sth like a kiss on the forehead and telling her sth like "good girl".


The process is easy every time your girl has an orgasm you kiss her on the forehead and tell her "good girl", and with time she'll start unconsciously associating the kiss and phrase with having orgasms, and if you kiss her and tell her the phrase when you're out or just spending time together, she'll feel really good and get wet and horny.


At least that is the theory, I know NLP works (I've experienced it mostly with smell - my colognes(every country that I go to I buy a new good cologne and I wear it the whole time I'm in that country and even years later when I smell them I remember about the experiences I've had in that country, like I have a Bvlgari that reminds me of the two weeks in the Netherlands and Amsterdam)).



What I'm asking is someone tried and used NLP to anchor orgasms in girls?

 

[Tyme2k]

I haven't, but It sounds like great theory. I will test it in the feild. Problem is I don't like "good girl.." it seems a bit incongruent for me almost belittling for her. Any other ideas of what to say?

But subconciously this is probably why most women love cuddling right after an orgasm, for example usually with my latest FB we always laid together for a few minutes with her head on my chest as a pillow and my arm around her. So now laying like this attributes good feelings, and if she is ever in a bad mood we just lay like this, viola instant good mood.

Crazy I never thought of it this way.

 

[MisterX]

Problem is I don't like "good girl.." it seems a bit incongruent for me almost belittling for her. Any other ideas of what to say?

The thing is that English is not the spoken language in my country and in my language there are a few phrases that are perfect for this but I can't think of any in English right now.


But I guess it can be any phrase, just has to be one that you don't use often. So as in the case of "good girl" is not sth you'd usually tell your girl and so the only time she'll hear you say is when you anchor it. That was the idea to be sth you'd say to her only in this situation.

So every time she hears it only one association comes to her mind - her having an orgasm.


It'd be great if you tried it with your girl for a week or two, and post if there is any result, cause right now I'm more on the one night stand side and and can't really test it

 

[Chase]

MisterX-

What I'm asking is someone tried and used NLP to anchor orgasms in girls?

I've played around with NLP some, and it works wonders used correctly and for the right things. I've used it during sex to bring girls to orgasm faster, but haven't bothered with anchoring orgasms... while I'm familiar with the idea, it's never been one I found personally exciting. Interesting, just not exciting enough to bother doing.

If you're going to do this, I'd probably suggest you set the anchor immediately before she begins to orgasm. The feeling of that intense build-up prior to orgasm is most likely want you want to generate in her by recalling the anchor; the release will happen naturally once the tension is created.

Chase

 

[Tyme2k]

I started slightly experimenting this with one of my girls. I don't say anything, it's just a kiss to the forehead. Last night, I slowed down during sex and kissed her forehead. Imediately after I noticed her get extremely wet and brought to orgasm within minutes.

Seems that even a simple gesture given consistently at the right time, as long as not abused is definitely beneficial. I am entirely positive that this can even help diffuse tension during arguments or negative emotions. Pretty advanced, but good stuff.