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Approach
I was at the grocery store on a weekday evening shopping for produce. While browsing an HB8 Brunette was trying to find the perfect pair of bannans.*If that's not the perfect setup, I don't know what is.
I observational approach and say "Trying to find the perfect bunch?" She smiles and I continue "I'm also picky about my bannans." She laughs and I comment that the ones she's holding are a tad bruised, she responds "I actually like them that way." I tease her about her odd taste then ask her name. I follow up with "What's your profession" She says "I work for such and such nonprofit." I respond "Well I hate helping people so we probably can't be friends." She laughs and then asks me about my profession. I ask her a question then tease her about her response, comment on her humility when she brags about her fashion sense. This continues for a few minutes. I ask her if she's in a rush. She says no. I tell her I need to finish my shopping but ask if she wants to meet up for coffee after shopping. She says "yes." I hand her my phone and tell her I'll text her when I'm done shopping. She say's ok and walks away excitedly.
Framing and Rapport
I'm mostly finished shopping when I met her but I intentionally browse a while longer, then find one more item to buy. I run into her in the dairy section accidentally and comment "Your doing much better then me." As she had added items to her cart and I still had the same two. I mention "I feel like I'm forgetting something." She teases me about my two items. I wander away looking puzzled by my options. She tells me "Let me know if you need any help." and smiles. I text her about 10 minutes later and ask her to meet me at checkout. We meetup after paying and realize we both live in the same apt complex. I asked her if it was cool if I stopped by my apt before heading to coffee to drop of my perishable groceries. Asked her to meet me in about 15 minutes at a local coffee shop. She then texted 10 minutes later "Actually really hungry, can we grab food instead?" I told her she was reading my mind and we met up at a nearby taco joint. She picked me up, and we ate and talked for about an hour. During the conversation I continued to playfully tease her and returned most questions she asked me. I transitioned to conversation about movies and tv shows. I asked if she was interested in watching an episode of one of the shows we both enjoy as I have a netflix subscription and she doesn't. She said she'd like that. We continued talking about our favorite shows as we walked back to the car. During the car ride we talked about music tastes.
First kiss and sexual escalation
I gave her a quick tour of my apartment to help build her comfort and then asked what she'd like to drink and gave her some options. I had some Prosecco that I poured for both of us and then sat beside her after handing her a glass. I then let her take a couple sips and ask a couple more questions before I sat my glass down, took her glass and set it down then leaned toward her and lifted her chin with my fingers and kissed her. I then went back to normal conversation. I few moments later I start playing with her hair and remove her scarf. I would pull back, resume conversation and every few moments would kiss to interrupt her. I'd pull back and comment on what a fast mover she was and wasn't sure I could keep up with her speed teasing her. I then began soft kissing all over her face. I'd pull away for a few movements, give her my irristable eyes then resume the kissing down her neck and along her exposed chest. I then pulled back and smile and stare some more. I then resume kissing her face and slowly moving my hand down her shirt and playing with her nipples. She likes this but again I pull away, smile, stare and tease her about how fast she moves and how many boys she's lured away with bananas. I then pull her into me and onto my lap. She is very slender and light. I kiss her face and tell her she's moving really fast. She demurres. I unbutton her pants and unzip them, I then pick her up by her legs and tell her I don't want her being exposed when my roommate comes home and carry her into my bedroom and lay her on her back on my bed. She's ready to go and I pull away and tease her asking if she was wanting a kiss or something. She smiles and says no, she's perfectly comfortable. I pause for a moment and then move to the bed an slowly climb over her. I kiss her and begin unbuttoning her blouse commenting about her liking textures. I take off her shirt kiss her some more than have her help me with mine. I kiss down her body and then remove her pants and panties in one go. I then kiss her back up to her face, back down again and give her oral for a few minutes. Once she seems primed, I grab a condom put it on then get to business.
Let's just say yoga might be a new qualifier for me for future women.
Morning after
We went a few times for about 2 hours and she stayed the night. I woke her up with another 20 minute round then made her breakfast.
Thanks guys for the articles and feedback, finally staring to enjoy the ride.
I was at the grocery store on a weekday evening shopping for produce. While browsing an HB8 Brunette was trying to find the perfect pair of bannans.*If that's not the perfect setup, I don't know what is.
Framing and Rapport
I'm mostly finished shopping when I met her but I intentionally browse a while longer, then find one more item to buy. I run into her in the dairy section accidentally and comment "Your doing much better then me." As she had added items to her cart and I still had the same two. I mention "I feel like I'm forgetting something." She teases me about my two items. I wander away looking puzzled by my options. She tells me "Let me know if you need any help." and smiles. I text her about 10 minutes later and ask her to meet me at checkout. We meetup after paying and realize we both live in the same apt complex. I asked her if it was cool if I stopped by my apt before heading to coffee to drop of my perishable groceries. Asked her to meet me in about 15 minutes at a local coffee shop. She then texted 10 minutes later "Actually really hungry, can we grab food instead?" I told her she was reading my mind and we met up at a nearby taco joint. She picked me up, and we ate and talked for about an hour. During the conversation I continued to playfully tease her and returned most questions she asked me. I transitioned to conversation about movies and tv shows. I asked if she was interested in watching an episode of one of the shows we both enjoy as I have a netflix subscription and she doesn't. She said she'd like that. We continued talking about our favorite shows as we walked back to the car. During the car ride we talked about music tastes.
First kiss and sexual escalation
I gave her a quick tour of my apartment to help build her comfort and then asked what she'd like to drink and gave her some options. I had some Prosecco that I poured for both of us and then sat beside her after handing her a glass. I then let her take a couple sips and ask a couple more questions before I sat my glass down, took her glass and set it down then leaned toward her and lifted her chin with my fingers and kissed her. I then went back to normal conversation. I few moments later I start playing with her hair and remove her scarf. I would pull back, resume conversation and every few moments would kiss to interrupt her. I'd pull back and comment on what a fast mover she was and wasn't sure I could keep up with her speed teasing her. I then began soft kissing all over her face. I'd pull away for a few movements, give her my irristable eyes then resume the kissing down her neck and along her exposed chest. I then pulled back and smile and stare some more. I then resume kissing her face and slowly moving my hand down her shirt and playing with her nipples. She likes this but again I pull away, smile, stare and tease her about how fast she moves and how many boys she's lured away with bananas. I then pull her into me and onto my lap. She is very slender and light. I kiss her face and tell her she's moving really fast. She demurres. I unbutton her pants and unzip them, I then pick her up by her legs and tell her I don't want her being exposed when my roommate comes home and carry her into my bedroom and lay her on her back on my bed. She's ready to go and I pull away and tease her asking if she was wanting a kiss or something. She smiles and says no, she's perfectly comfortable. I pause for a moment and then move to the bed an slowly climb over her. I kiss her and begin unbuttoning her blouse commenting about her liking textures. I take off her shirt kiss her some more than have her help me with mine. I kiss down her body and then remove her pants and panties in one go. I then kiss her back up to her face, back down again and give her oral for a few minutes. Once she seems primed, I grab a condom put it on then get to business.
Let's just say yoga might be a new qualifier for me for future women.
Morning after
We went a few times for about 2 hours and she stayed the night. I woke her up with another 20 minute round then made her breakfast.
Thanks guys for the articles and feedback, finally staring to enjoy the ride.