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Life is full of ups and downs.
Another semi-social circle lay. Specifically, this Italian girl I mention here:
What happened to me was that after my last post, I had an accident. Happens when playing my sports. Foot ligament has sadly left the chat and gone for healing vacation.
So, I spent the last two weeks mostly at home and in crutches. Fun fact - crutches lower your hook rate xD Field tested for the few approaches I could do. And this happened just before I was about to respond to @Skippy 's journal making a joke about how it's all just limiting beliefs of not going after fast-moving walking sets!
Jinxed myself there.
Well, one thing that is for sure is how she saw me get preselection since the last date because I brought my two cute female friends I am close and touchy with once, and we were in our own little liminal space. Hearing gossip about it later revealed that it seemed like I had a "group of girls taking care of me" lmao. I'm finding it interesting how some girls react stronger to preselection while others seem to be turned off by it when too blatant because they go into autorejection. At least that's what some female friends confide when I'm picking their minds. But how reliable that is is unclear.
Anyhow, today is the third day I can walk again. I have a little easily-removable cast though, but beyond that I am feeling much better already and had an unexpectedly speedy recovery. In this time I meditated a lot, did Major_Mark's polarity exercises I'm liking a lot, gave Huna healing meditation serious attention, and did body awareness scans diligently. Despite coming from a STEM background I am finding enormous untapped potential and benefit in mind and body mastery, i.e., forms of meditation and body awareness for all areas of my life. And the facts state that I healed quicker than expected. What it is fundamentally attributed to is of course impossible to say, but as long I get fully healthy fast again, who really cares as long as it works!
Anyway, this girl gamed me to a big extent as well.
So she successfully pinged, intrigue baited, and soft closed me. I made notes xd
This time I accept it and have her come over to mine since my flatmates are away. She then texts whether she should make dinner as well.
At this point, I still remember the last date and message of how she kicked me out of hers citing her boyfriend (real) and then the follow-up invitation for using me for good conversation. Sounds nice, no thank you. But this time I feel like I'll give her a chance and if we don't end up sleeping together, I'll totally flake on every single invitation for the next 2 months. Then again, the thought of having a girl come over, bringing you wine and cooking you dinner, does sound like an evening well spent.
She comes over, and I find out the reason she wants wine is because someone who has influence over her life literally died this week in a plane crash. Straight out of a movie. Well she cries a bit and the mach part of me remembers how emotional girls are more easily manipulated... so I also go into SOT living in the moment, what you would do if you had 1 day to live. If you died tonight... or next week... or in a month. I really like this SOT because it sets urgency frames and also strong non-judgemental ones that encourage you to feel free and be true to yourself. Will definitely use it more in the future!
Well I spend 2 hours practicing being in the moment and pacing and leading conversation. I sprinkle in sexual frames here and there because this is my goal of developing and expanding my game, and it works well.
One thing I feel inspired to try out is a variant of @Teevster 's post in intrigue baits that you subvert and after she says something more provocative I say, "If you keep talking like that, do you know what I'm going to do to you?"
She replies, "what?". I look at her with a dead serious expression. "I'm going to adopt you as my little sister," I say. Without missing a beat, she says, "ok," and continues talking. Damn. But then a few minutes later she asks me what the hell I do with little sisters... I am not prepared for that hahaha. "I take good care of them, of course," I say, and she nods serenely and says, "Fair enough".
One moment to highlight is how ever since I noticed how incredibly attractive and sultry women's squinted eyes as a motion can be, I've been incorporating it into my own facial expressions. You know when a girl looks at you and then suddenly her head turns a bit to the side and her eyes narrow, and all of a sudden she's exuding this sense of sultriness and sexiness? I find it super hot! So I've been doing something similar as well.
When I do it with her, she stops her sentence, says, "You just looked at me like... please, do that," pauses, and then continues talking. Obviously I do not know what she said after because I was just thinking about this and the breathless way she sighed it. Good stuff, I will have to try this too! Love the new tech I'm picking up.
Well later we're standing in the hallway, leaning against opposite walls, and I let the conversation drop and we just stare into each other's eyes. After half a minute, she asks me, "So what would you do... if it were your last night?" Game over, I think to myself. Like this specifically was the tipping point where it became clear to both of us what would happen next.
"I'd enjoy it... fully," I say.
She looks at me even deeper. "I'm up for a good time, if you can give me a good time," she says.
"Hmm...," I purr, "I can give you a good time, if you can take it," I say.
Another silence as we continue staring at each others eyes.
"You know, you have really beautiful eyes," I say. She responds something. I continue, "Makes me want to see them from closer," and put my hand to the side of her neck and pull her close. She's immediately kissing me, and we stumble quickly to my bedroom.
Mind you... all this time, I have my cast on and in fact will not take it off the entire night. Stay safe guys!
She's super passionate and sensitive and super lovely. I was a bit concerned because she's thiccer than my usual taste but has a gorgeous face and lips, but is was great. Only thing is I had trouble being fully hard with a condom but it worked nonetheless. I had fapped like crazy (be pent up for 2 weeks inside with no sports to vent) the day before and literally 5 minutes after my 2h fap session she texts me about meeting up. I really had to laugh at it!
I'm too nice to kick her out so she sleeps over and we fuck some more in the morning. Do the thing I learned from master bruxelles PUA G when I visited which is telling her she's not allowed to cum, and has to ask for permission. Well... very soon she's asking for permission. "What's the magic word?" I ask. "Pleeeease," she responds sensually. "Now say the full sentence," I order, and she does. Oh I love girls.
She was also very into being my good little girl and calling me Papi (Italian version of Daddy). Am a bit surprised, but then again first PPP (I think) I've had in bed. Did the @Skills trick where I ask her, "Do you like my cock deep inside your pussy?" and after she goes yeees I say, "Tell me you love it". Then just escalate the Tell Me into whatever you want. She especially loved me dirty talking her all the time, saying how good she feels, how she loves being my good little slut, how she deserves this, how it makes her feel beautiful and strong and feminine... kind of my attempt to integrate Mark's erotic hypnosis as a dirty talk form.
I ask her when she first realized she wanted to sleep with me. She said when she first really started talking to me at that Halloween party. Where I ran some second gen verbals and we had our arms around each other. And after I playfully shoo her away in a push-pull move she actually leaves because her friends are waiting (I guess?) but apparently they were all over her asking who that guy is and that we seemed so close. And her being like oh noo we're just friends from volley... but deep inside thinking about us having sex all night and loving the thought.
Also ask what I did that she liked, and after thinking she just says, "The vibe." She also exclaimed at how the sex happened so naturally and actually she was wondering if it was going to happen. "I didn't come over for this," she said, then smiled, "But I did come over for this." So basically it had been on her mind and it was up to me to make it happen. But it being kinda social circle and her having a boyfriend (my first lay with a girl with a boyfriend! I'm pretty happy about this, especially after all these approaches this month with taken girls) made me veer much more on the side of slowly building it up and taking it smooth, which I did successfully here as well. Because at no point do I force the girl into polarization where she must now consciously decide whether she will risk it or not. In fact, this results in literally no LMR either from either her or HBCuba since I managed to get it way past that point before even starting the physical escalation. Which is a big win for me, because I am very inspired by @Lofty 's and @Bacchus 's Tempt and Arouse game and am making some little breakthroughs in getting there.
Onwards!
-Dev
Another semi-social circle lay. Specifically, this Italian girl I mention here:
What happened to me was that after my last post, I had an accident. Happens when playing my sports. Foot ligament has sadly left the chat and gone for healing vacation.
So, I spent the last two weeks mostly at home and in crutches. Fun fact - crutches lower your hook rate xD Field tested for the few approaches I could do. And this happened just before I was about to respond to @Skippy 's journal making a joke about how it's all just limiting beliefs of not going after fast-moving walking sets!
Jinxed myself there.Well, one thing that is for sure is how she saw me get preselection since the last date because I brought my two cute female friends I am close and touchy with once, and we were in our own little liminal space. Hearing gossip about it later revealed that it seemed like I had a "group of girls taking care of me" lmao. I'm finding it interesting how some girls react stronger to preselection while others seem to be turned off by it when too blatant because they go into autorejection. At least that's what some female friends confide when I'm picking their minds. But how reliable that is is unclear.
Anyhow, today is the third day I can walk again. I have a little easily-removable cast though, but beyond that I am feeling much better already and had an unexpectedly speedy recovery. In this time I meditated a lot, did Major_Mark's polarity exercises I'm liking a lot, gave Huna healing meditation serious attention, and did body awareness scans diligently. Despite coming from a STEM background I am finding enormous untapped potential and benefit in mind and body mastery, i.e., forms of meditation and body awareness for all areas of my life. And the facts state that I healed quicker than expected. What it is fundamentally attributed to is of course impossible to say, but as long I get fully healthy fast again, who really cares as long as it works!
Anyway, this girl gamed me to a big extent as well.
Her: Hey can I ask you something weird?
Me: Of course, shoot
Her: Would you be free today or tomorrow evening? I have wine to offer and need to spend time with people I can feel comfortable with
Me: Of course, shoot
Her: Would you be free today or tomorrow evening? I have wine to offer and need to spend time with people I can feel comfortable with
So she successfully pinged, intrigue baited, and soft closed me. I made notes xd
This time I accept it and have her come over to mine since my flatmates are away. She then texts whether she should make dinner as well.
At this point, I still remember the last date and message of how she kicked me out of hers citing her boyfriend (real) and then the follow-up invitation for using me for good conversation. Sounds nice, no thank you. But this time I feel like I'll give her a chance and if we don't end up sleeping together, I'll totally flake on every single invitation for the next 2 months. Then again, the thought of having a girl come over, bringing you wine and cooking you dinner, does sound like an evening well spent.
She comes over, and I find out the reason she wants wine is because someone who has influence over her life literally died this week in a plane crash. Straight out of a movie. Well she cries a bit and the mach part of me remembers how emotional girls are more easily manipulated... so I also go into SOT living in the moment, what you would do if you had 1 day to live. If you died tonight... or next week... or in a month. I really like this SOT because it sets urgency frames and also strong non-judgemental ones that encourage you to feel free and be true to yourself. Will definitely use it more in the future!
Well I spend 2 hours practicing being in the moment and pacing and leading conversation. I sprinkle in sexual frames here and there because this is my goal of developing and expanding my game, and it works well.
One thing I feel inspired to try out is a variant of @Teevster 's post in intrigue baits that you subvert and after she says something more provocative I say, "If you keep talking like that, do you know what I'm going to do to you?"
She replies, "what?". I look at her with a dead serious expression. "I'm going to adopt you as my little sister," I say. Without missing a beat, she says, "ok," and continues talking. Damn. But then a few minutes later she asks me what the hell I do with little sisters... I am not prepared for that hahaha. "I take good care of them, of course," I say, and she nods serenely and says, "Fair enough".
One moment to highlight is how ever since I noticed how incredibly attractive and sultry women's squinted eyes as a motion can be, I've been incorporating it into my own facial expressions. You know when a girl looks at you and then suddenly her head turns a bit to the side and her eyes narrow, and all of a sudden she's exuding this sense of sultriness and sexiness? I find it super hot! So I've been doing something similar as well.
When I do it with her, she stops her sentence, says, "You just looked at me like... please, do that," pauses, and then continues talking. Obviously I do not know what she said after because I was just thinking about this and the breathless way she sighed it. Good stuff, I will have to try this too! Love the new tech I'm picking up.
Well later we're standing in the hallway, leaning against opposite walls, and I let the conversation drop and we just stare into each other's eyes. After half a minute, she asks me, "So what would you do... if it were your last night?" Game over, I think to myself. Like this specifically was the tipping point where it became clear to both of us what would happen next.
"I'd enjoy it... fully," I say.
She looks at me even deeper. "I'm up for a good time, if you can give me a good time," she says.
"Hmm...," I purr, "I can give you a good time, if you can take it," I say.
Another silence as we continue staring at each others eyes.
"You know, you have really beautiful eyes," I say. She responds something. I continue, "Makes me want to see them from closer," and put my hand to the side of her neck and pull her close. She's immediately kissing me, and we stumble quickly to my bedroom.
Mind you... all this time, I have my cast on and in fact will not take it off the entire night. Stay safe guys!
She's super passionate and sensitive and super lovely. I was a bit concerned because she's thiccer than my usual taste but has a gorgeous face and lips, but is was great. Only thing is I had trouble being fully hard with a condom but it worked nonetheless. I had fapped like crazy (be pent up for 2 weeks inside with no sports to vent) the day before and literally 5 minutes after my 2h fap session she texts me about meeting up. I really had to laugh at it!
I'm too nice to kick her out so she sleeps over and we fuck some more in the morning. Do the thing I learned from master bruxelles PUA G when I visited which is telling her she's not allowed to cum, and has to ask for permission. Well... very soon she's asking for permission. "What's the magic word?" I ask. "Pleeeease," she responds sensually. "Now say the full sentence," I order, and she does. Oh I love girls.
She was also very into being my good little girl and calling me Papi (Italian version of Daddy). Am a bit surprised, but then again first PPP (I think) I've had in bed. Did the @Skills trick where I ask her, "Do you like my cock deep inside your pussy?" and after she goes yeees I say, "Tell me you love it". Then just escalate the Tell Me into whatever you want. She especially loved me dirty talking her all the time, saying how good she feels, how she loves being my good little slut, how she deserves this, how it makes her feel beautiful and strong and feminine... kind of my attempt to integrate Mark's erotic hypnosis as a dirty talk form.
I ask her when she first realized she wanted to sleep with me. She said when she first really started talking to me at that Halloween party. Where I ran some second gen verbals and we had our arms around each other. And after I playfully shoo her away in a push-pull move she actually leaves because her friends are waiting (I guess?) but apparently they were all over her asking who that guy is and that we seemed so close. And her being like oh noo we're just friends from volley... but deep inside thinking about us having sex all night and loving the thought.
Also ask what I did that she liked, and after thinking she just says, "The vibe." She also exclaimed at how the sex happened so naturally and actually she was wondering if it was going to happen. "I didn't come over for this," she said, then smiled, "But I did come over for this." So basically it had been on her mind and it was up to me to make it happen. But it being kinda social circle and her having a boyfriend (my first lay with a girl with a boyfriend! I'm pretty happy about this, especially after all these approaches this month with taken girls) made me veer much more on the side of slowly building it up and taking it smooth, which I did successfully here as well. Because at no point do I force the girl into polarization where she must now consciously decide whether she will risk it or not. In fact, this results in literally no LMR either from either her or HBCuba since I managed to get it way past that point before even starting the physical escalation. Which is a big win for me, because I am very inspired by @Lofty 's and @Bacchus 's Tempt and Arouse game and am making some little breakthroughs in getting there.
Onwards!
-Dev
