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- Feb 7, 2018
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I will go by Rico Leon.
I first started with Girlschase at the age of 15 after the girl next door broke up with me. I was needy and put her on the pedestal and "respected" her boundaries by only making out with her and not taking things to the next level. We only lasted 2 weeks but trust me when I say I was heart broken. It took me 4 months get over her and strive to get better at getting girls. Ironically I got her as a girlfriend shortly after stumbling on this site looking for advice on porn addiction. So I would have never had her in the first place without girlschase.
Afterwards at 16 I used girlschase to get me my first date with a college student via dating website OKcupid. After following the steps lay out to me in this website and getting back to her place (she was 20) I manhandled kissed her and lost my v-card. This made me get 2 more additional lays 1 with another girl online and one with a fellow student in my school.
This is where shit gets real. I meet my high school sweet heart and I fall deep in love. I take her v-card and use this site for a good year and a half for dating advice and continue this "great" relationship or so I thought it was for 4 years. I am 20 now and as you could have probably guessed, I am now single. This heartbreak was unreal, it happened 2 weeks ago. She dumped me because she didn't share the same ideas of moving out of state with me for a different type of life I wanted to live. We lived together for 2 years and I am now single realizing that I had settled majorly with this girl.
She didn't wanna clean, she was letting herself go and getting fat, she didn't even graduate high school. Honestly I was just in love with the idea of getting married to my high school sweet heart, but just like my friends told me and I have come to realize... I could have done so much better. Plus chase even states that you don't wanna marry super young for impulse and immaturity reasons. I wished I had listen beforehand.
Anyways after drinking a lot and uh getting 2 frankly sad lays both being from online and being kinda chubby I am super tired. Oh I also hired like 2 hookers in process so 4 lays in total and yeah they where terrible too. Again I am super tired of low quality lays. (and my ex was a 6 out of 10 for me) maybe that's why I am getting over it so quickly.
As much as I hate what is going on with covid I can't make up excuses. I have cut my hair, shaved properly, and got some clothes ready to go out and meet new women as a 20 year old single man living by himself and his dog. I got a year left in this state and I was make the best of it. I am uninstalling tinder (tired of these low quality lays) and forcing myself to go out and get results.
I have been able to approach around 4-6 girls all at the mall and have gotten no results. I am fairly confident guy but I still deal with approach anxiety. I just go up to them with a direct opener from Ricardus "are you single" and I haven't had any "single" girls to bite yet lol. I also tried some indirect "does this look good on me" approaches but never showed my true desires of interested with the girls and let the conversation die out.
Again covid here in my blue state is kind of crazy. The mask make it hard to talk so I have to be louder and they can't see my facial expressions and how good looking I am lol. Sometimes I forget to lower my mask for a quick second so they can see me before I approach since I am nervous when approaching.
Ugh... I just want to know where to approach, how to approach and when to approach. I have subscribed to the site of course so I read all the articles I can. I spoke to Hector Castillo (aka Papi) 3 years ago, I watch the girlschase YouTube channel and I just bought one date as well. So I am well-equipped in terms of knowledge. Now I know this is all somewhat mental masturbation on how to play the guitar but until I got out and practice I will never know how to actually play guitar. Aka I need to approach. A LOT.
I have Thursday, Sunday and Monday off. I can only do day game since I am 20 plus this state has no real nightlife. Still the type of girls I want at the current moment aren't be party girls. The university area is meh filled mostly with dead shops and hobos. In my city we have 560,000 people so no excuses for day game lmao. FYI these are the reasons I am leaving in a year when I have enough money to Florida. Can't wait to day game there omg.
I have 2 malls I can hit up, a couple of Walmart's, some small shops I guess like wholefoods but no real mom a pop shops, covid killed like 90 percent of them no joke...
So uh... All I can think of is day gaming on Sundays at the mall and visiting grocery stores Monday and Thursday. Again I am looking for normal girls that I can lay and potentially rack up a couple of 4-6 month (at the same time) LTRs. I don't do friends with benefits. I would like multiple girlfriends. I know this possible because I have seen it and I had a one-sided open relationship with my ex. I racked 20 lays in my 4 year relationship, sadly all from tinder 0_o .....
So hello everyone nice to be here!
Please if you have any advice let me know I wanna get better and I wanna share my growth with this amazing community and site that has turned me into the man I am today... and as dumb as it sounds also kind of filled my absent father's effect on my masculine view of this world. AKA go out and get some bitches son, haha!
I first started with Girlschase at the age of 15 after the girl next door broke up with me. I was needy and put her on the pedestal and "respected" her boundaries by only making out with her and not taking things to the next level. We only lasted 2 weeks but trust me when I say I was heart broken. It took me 4 months get over her and strive to get better at getting girls. Ironically I got her as a girlfriend shortly after stumbling on this site looking for advice on porn addiction. So I would have never had her in the first place without girlschase.
Afterwards at 16 I used girlschase to get me my first date with a college student via dating website OKcupid. After following the steps lay out to me in this website and getting back to her place (she was 20) I manhandled kissed her and lost my v-card. This made me get 2 more additional lays 1 with another girl online and one with a fellow student in my school.
This is where shit gets real. I meet my high school sweet heart and I fall deep in love. I take her v-card and use this site for a good year and a half for dating advice and continue this "great" relationship or so I thought it was for 4 years. I am 20 now and as you could have probably guessed, I am now single. This heartbreak was unreal, it happened 2 weeks ago. She dumped me because she didn't share the same ideas of moving out of state with me for a different type of life I wanted to live. We lived together for 2 years and I am now single realizing that I had settled majorly with this girl.
She didn't wanna clean, she was letting herself go and getting fat, she didn't even graduate high school. Honestly I was just in love with the idea of getting married to my high school sweet heart, but just like my friends told me and I have come to realize... I could have done so much better. Plus chase even states that you don't wanna marry super young for impulse and immaturity reasons. I wished I had listen beforehand.
Anyways after drinking a lot and uh getting 2 frankly sad lays both being from online and being kinda chubby I am super tired. Oh I also hired like 2 hookers in process so 4 lays in total and yeah they where terrible too. Again I am super tired of low quality lays. (and my ex was a 6 out of 10 for me) maybe that's why I am getting over it so quickly.
As much as I hate what is going on with covid I can't make up excuses. I have cut my hair, shaved properly, and got some clothes ready to go out and meet new women as a 20 year old single man living by himself and his dog. I got a year left in this state and I was make the best of it. I am uninstalling tinder (tired of these low quality lays) and forcing myself to go out and get results.
I have been able to approach around 4-6 girls all at the mall and have gotten no results. I am fairly confident guy but I still deal with approach anxiety. I just go up to them with a direct opener from Ricardus "are you single" and I haven't had any "single" girls to bite yet lol. I also tried some indirect "does this look good on me" approaches but never showed my true desires of interested with the girls and let the conversation die out.
Again covid here in my blue state is kind of crazy. The mask make it hard to talk so I have to be louder and they can't see my facial expressions and how good looking I am lol. Sometimes I forget to lower my mask for a quick second so they can see me before I approach since I am nervous when approaching.
Ugh... I just want to know where to approach, how to approach and when to approach. I have subscribed to the site of course so I read all the articles I can. I spoke to Hector Castillo (aka Papi) 3 years ago, I watch the girlschase YouTube channel and I just bought one date as well. So I am well-equipped in terms of knowledge. Now I know this is all somewhat mental masturbation on how to play the guitar but until I got out and practice I will never know how to actually play guitar. Aka I need to approach. A LOT.
I have Thursday, Sunday and Monday off. I can only do day game since I am 20 plus this state has no real nightlife. Still the type of girls I want at the current moment aren't be party girls. The university area is meh filled mostly with dead shops and hobos. In my city we have 560,000 people so no excuses for day game lmao. FYI these are the reasons I am leaving in a year when I have enough money to Florida. Can't wait to day game there omg.
I have 2 malls I can hit up, a couple of Walmart's, some small shops I guess like wholefoods but no real mom a pop shops, covid killed like 90 percent of them no joke...
So uh... All I can think of is day gaming on Sundays at the mall and visiting grocery stores Monday and Thursday. Again I am looking for normal girls that I can lay and potentially rack up a couple of 4-6 month (at the same time) LTRs. I don't do friends with benefits. I would like multiple girlfriends. I know this possible because I have seen it and I had a one-sided open relationship with my ex. I racked 20 lays in my 4 year relationship, sadly all from tinder 0_o .....
So hello everyone nice to be here!
Please if you have any advice let me know I wanna get better and I wanna share my growth with this amazing community and site that has turned me into the man I am today... and as dumb as it sounds also kind of filled my absent father's effect on my masculine view of this world. AKA go out and get some bitches son, haha!
