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Azari

Space Monkey
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Hey guys,

So there's this girl that lives a block or two away from where I live. In my area, it's more like a community, people are all up in each other's business haha. Almost like everyone knows each other one way or another.

Usually I rarely socialise with them apart from the basic courtesies. But when I got into seduction, I decided to be more talkative with the girls around with no intention to bang tho, just socialising.That's how I knew the girl this post is about. Let's call her Shiny.


So Shiny and I didn't know each other well and we weren't exactly friends more like acquaintances. Anyways we were talking and she mentions she's leaving the country soon. I see this as an opportunity to practice game on her and even if I mess up, she wouldn't be around and all the awkwardness would be avoided.

I ask for her number, telling her because I rarely see her around and she's more than happy to give it to me. She asks me to call or text her immediately,so that she has my number too. I'm low key shocked because I didn't expect this reaction.


We text back and forth, because I wanted to build some rapport before asking her out. She asks me for my Facebook, I give it her but apparently she can't find it. So she gives me hers. I don't add her immediately. I text her goodnight and go to sleep. I hadn't asked her out yet.

Three days later I call her and she responds with enthusiasm that surprises me. But she's in a noisy environment and promises to call me when she gets home. I told her its cool. And went for football/ soccer practice. Still hadn't asked her out.

When I get back from practice, I find a few missed calls and a text from Shiny,

Please call me,

I make a mental note to call her, but for some reason I forgot. Three days later I add her on Facebook and send her a text to inform her. She responds to neither and I delete my request haha. That was two weeks ago. Yesterday I heard that she still hasn't travelled.Which means I still have a chance to practice game on her.

I can't seem to figure out how to turn things around. So I thought you guys might know what to do.

I was thinking either address the situation, build some positive vibes and then ask her out. Or just forget about her.

Any thoughts, advice ?

Thanx
 
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ulrich

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You took too much to respond and she is starting to think you may simply not like her. Attraction has an expiration date, after all.

Yes, do that. Build rapport again and invite her out this time.
(Don’t invite her out of the blue!! Build that rapport)
 

DarkKnight

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Agree with uriel this is so predictable
I make a mental note to call her, but for some reason I forgot.
You dont forget girls you really like, she knows this. Either you're playing the field (I am guilty of this behavior as well) or you don't like her enough. Also when girls really like you and I assume she does after I read your report, they get very anxious.. the emotions are too much to wait patiently for you, because they care much about you.
 

Azari

Space Monkey
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You took too much to respond and she is starting to think you may simply not like her. Attraction has an expiration date, after all.

Yes, do that. Build rapport again and invite her out this time.
(Don’t invite her out of the blue!! Build that rapport)
Alright....going to do that, and invite her out as soon as possible, gotta move fast.

Appreciate your advice bro.
Agree with uriel this is so predictable

You dont forget girls you really like, she knows this. Either you're playing the field (I am guilty of this behavior as well) or you don't like her enough. Also when girls really like you and I assume she does after I read your report, they get very anxious.. the emotions are too much to wait patiently for you, because they care much about you.
Tbh still not used to girls really liking me that much haha so I assumed she was just a friendly girl.
Also when girls really like you and I assume she does after I read your report, they get very anxious.. the emotions are too much to wait patiently for you, because they care much about you.
I'll keep that in mind. Thanks for the insights
 
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