Hello,
This is my first post so please help me with this issue.
I love this girl and we have really busy schedules when it comes to school. Her name is Gena, she is bisexual, and we both only meet each other at lunch on school campus, and our parents play influential roles in our lives still. We both have conversations with our friends at the table. I am just wondering if you guys can give me ways to advance our relationship from acquaintances, and other things so she can be my girlfriend and my loving partner.
Yesterday, once our lunch time was over, she was really stressing over a family situation of hers. So, I started to ask how her family was, if she liked traveling, and such to lessen her stress and she just gave me one word, blunt answers. Then, I asked her to please quiz me on something in a class subject we both share (ask for compliance) and she just wanted to give me her flash cards, which I refused twice. Then, I tried to direct her into a hallway with less traffic that would be better to talk while putting my hand on the small of her back, but she quickly said no and kept going by my side in her direction. After that, an update of the family issue she stressed about came up on her phone and she kept on trying to make it work, and she told me, so I said, "Yeah, I know how it feels when you are desperate and you just want things to work for you." And she laughed a little. Finally, we approached my class so I said, "Goodbye Gena, talk to you later." And she said goodbye in a light-hearted way.
Then, today, I tried the interrupt her path approach and I said in a smooth, casual way, "Hey Gena, let me walk with ya for a sec, let's catch up on things." She stopped and said she was still talking with two guys who are our mutual friends from the table, even though she wasn't talking to them when I approached. Then, one of the guys left in a rude way to go to class (not because of me) and so I asked how her family situation of yesterday turned out. She gave a blunt one word answer and started talking with the remaining guy like I was not there. Finally, when we approached her class, I said, "Goodbye Gena, talk to you later. Good luck with the class" while I touched her shoulder. She said "Goodbye (my name)" and then I said bye to the guy in a more formal way and he said goodbye.
I am sorry this post is long, but I just need advice on the situation.
Thanks, jobou21.
P. S. I have also other girls that are my friends that sit at the table that I talk with. It is just that Gena I feel is the one for me.
This is my first post so please help me with this issue.
I love this girl and we have really busy schedules when it comes to school. Her name is Gena, she is bisexual, and we both only meet each other at lunch on school campus, and our parents play influential roles in our lives still. We both have conversations with our friends at the table. I am just wondering if you guys can give me ways to advance our relationship from acquaintances, and other things so she can be my girlfriend and my loving partner.
Yesterday, once our lunch time was over, she was really stressing over a family situation of hers. So, I started to ask how her family was, if she liked traveling, and such to lessen her stress and she just gave me one word, blunt answers. Then, I asked her to please quiz me on something in a class subject we both share (ask for compliance) and she just wanted to give me her flash cards, which I refused twice. Then, I tried to direct her into a hallway with less traffic that would be better to talk while putting my hand on the small of her back, but she quickly said no and kept going by my side in her direction. After that, an update of the family issue she stressed about came up on her phone and she kept on trying to make it work, and she told me, so I said, "Yeah, I know how it feels when you are desperate and you just want things to work for you." And she laughed a little. Finally, we approached my class so I said, "Goodbye Gena, talk to you later." And she said goodbye in a light-hearted way.
Then, today, I tried the interrupt her path approach and I said in a smooth, casual way, "Hey Gena, let me walk with ya for a sec, let's catch up on things." She stopped and said she was still talking with two guys who are our mutual friends from the table, even though she wasn't talking to them when I approached. Then, one of the guys left in a rude way to go to class (not because of me) and so I asked how her family situation of yesterday turned out. She gave a blunt one word answer and started talking with the remaining guy like I was not there. Finally, when we approached her class, I said, "Goodbye Gena, talk to you later. Good luck with the class" while I touched her shoulder. She said "Goodbye (my name)" and then I said bye to the guy in a more formal way and he said goodbye.
I am sorry this post is long, but I just need advice on the situation.
Thanks, jobou21.
P. S. I have also other girls that are my friends that sit at the table that I talk with. It is just that Gena I feel is the one for me.
