She's a coworker. We're both normally not working anywhere close to each other. But when we see each other we flirt a lot. Today I've noticed she has a grey Hyundai, so we talked a little about car colours and stuff. She found out I don't have a license.
Later on we were passing by and had some small talk. I finished by asking her "So when are you teaching me how to drive then?" and a laugh. She laughed and said "Yeah I don't think that's a good idea" ( She's engaged ).
I thought she took it like an actual invitation and she chose to reject me, so I shrugged my shoulders and moved on. Perhaps that was my mistake, I pussied out of giving her a full blown invitation.
Anyway here's where things get interesting. She comes around far more than usual, and acts just SO.WEIRD. One moment she looks angry, the next she looks happy. She gave me a shit-test by saying we should "double check" on something that I said, and I replied that I can guarantee what I said is true. Then she kept on being weird.
The last time she came around, she just mumbled something I couldn't understand. I said "I'm sorry?". Again she mumbles. I said "Sorry I really didn't understand that. Could you repeat please?". Mumbles something short one more time then leaves.
My first suspicion was that she was in autorejection, and I considered using Chase's come back technique. But she didn't really give me any chance to do it. It is unlikely anyway because I'm as humble as I can possibly be around women, especially coworkers. I've never had a girl do this sort of stuff with me.
So was it autorejection? And if it was, how do you manage a girl like this? Because she sure managed to throw me off my game.
Thanks,
Mars
Later on we were passing by and had some small talk. I finished by asking her "So when are you teaching me how to drive then?" and a laugh. She laughed and said "Yeah I don't think that's a good idea" ( She's engaged ).
I thought she took it like an actual invitation and she chose to reject me, so I shrugged my shoulders and moved on. Perhaps that was my mistake, I pussied out of giving her a full blown invitation.
Anyway here's where things get interesting. She comes around far more than usual, and acts just SO.WEIRD. One moment she looks angry, the next she looks happy. She gave me a shit-test by saying we should "double check" on something that I said, and I replied that I can guarantee what I said is true. Then she kept on being weird.
The last time she came around, she just mumbled something I couldn't understand. I said "I'm sorry?". Again she mumbles. I said "Sorry I really didn't understand that. Could you repeat please?". Mumbles something short one more time then leaves.
My first suspicion was that she was in autorejection, and I considered using Chase's come back technique. But she didn't really give me any chance to do it. It is unlikely anyway because I'm as humble as I can possibly be around women, especially coworkers. I've never had a girl do this sort of stuff with me.
So was it autorejection? And if it was, how do you manage a girl like this? Because she sure managed to throw me off my game.
Thanks,
Mars
