im writing this because I love the girl that once was mine and I need an advice from an expert person.
I meet this girl through friends back about 2 1/2 years ago, ( dated her for 2years) we meet couple times after and we hit it up from there, she liked me a lot, we had an amazing time together. I didn't give her that much attention and I felt she liked me even more, I was nice and supportive but also ignore her a little and kept doing things my way, regardless she loved me a lot and my feelings started growing for her. I can say the first year was the best time in our relationship I was fully supportive of her through her university exams (last year), and she gone through family problems as well ( she didn't get along with her father, he caught talking to another woman). the second year is where our problems started, and it started over she wanting more and the problem is we have different believes (religions) iam catholic and she is not, at first she agreed to convert so we can get married but I still didn't promised her marriage I would instead kept giving her percentage ( stupid me I know), and slowly we started arguing more and she started to put up less with me and my actions, and one day about half way through the second year I decided to introduce her to my parents, the meeting didn't not went as planed my father was a little bit upfront with her and told her there wont be any marriage between us and I didn't say anything or comment, after the meeting she expressed her feeling she was mad and i calmed her down and got her an apology from my father the next day, after few months i met her mom and she was nice to me and supportive of our relationship, anyhow as we got closer to the two year mark and tension started to arise she wanted us to have a talk about our relationship and figure out if we were to continue or not. we decided on a date that i later propounded due to her birthday if anything would to go wrong i didn't wanted it to happen before her bday. anyhow we had our meeting and she didn't want to convert anymore and she wanted me to compromise instead. i couldn't do that and she wanted me to break the relationship but i didn't i wanted her to hoping she will feel better,
she ended it. a week later she heads to cuba with her friends i tried to work things out between us but she hated my guts. its been 5 months now and i cant seems to get her out of my mind i really love this girl and i should of compromised, i did all the wrong things by asking her to come back and begging for another chance cause i didn't know better or i had a good advice, 3 months ago she told my friends she still love me and consider going back to me if i changed, 2 months ago i decide to leave her alone (NC zone) and wait for her to. about a month after i contacted her asking her how is she doing and all that and she seemed to take her sweet time to reply to me i asked her what is going on and she stated that she is seeing someone, i had a feeling about that actually i could see her online chatting till 3am, after couple weeks i notice her not being online as much, now she is back not like before tho iam assuming it didn't last that long, about 10 days ago she msged me to let me know that the guy i took her car to fix her windshield is stupid and didn't do his job right because it started to leak, now i took this to my advantage and knowing she is an independent and also stubborn person i place few hundred dollors on her car knowing the fact she will get in touch with me to return it and i could have a small date/talk with her. it happened about couple days ago, we meet in a coffee shop, i pretended to be as much friendly and self confident as i could even though my guts are about to fall out, we started the conversation normally although she didn't open up about what is she doing and whats new in her life but i had to to show her that iam a different man, and i tried to bring our good times together, she started to open up a little and told me few things about her life, i opened our relationship subject and how im ready to commit and compromise if she had came back to me, she started asking me personal question if anyone trying to hook me up with a girl and what would i do if my parents didn't approved of our relationship (in our culture parents approval is very important) , at the end she told me that i should try to move on and we might come back in 2 years time and she had mad her mind about our relationship and sheis one
stubborn girl.
i appreciate anyone taking there time to go over this
i really need help and advice to get this girl back i love her a lot
i don't know what to do if i should approach her as a friend or approach her friends to talk to her i really don't know
she left with a part of my heart with her
I meet this girl through friends back about 2 1/2 years ago, ( dated her for 2years) we meet couple times after and we hit it up from there, she liked me a lot, we had an amazing time together. I didn't give her that much attention and I felt she liked me even more, I was nice and supportive but also ignore her a little and kept doing things my way, regardless she loved me a lot and my feelings started growing for her. I can say the first year was the best time in our relationship I was fully supportive of her through her university exams (last year), and she gone through family problems as well ( she didn't get along with her father, he caught talking to another woman). the second year is where our problems started, and it started over she wanting more and the problem is we have different believes (religions) iam catholic and she is not, at first she agreed to convert so we can get married but I still didn't promised her marriage I would instead kept giving her percentage ( stupid me I know), and slowly we started arguing more and she started to put up less with me and my actions, and one day about half way through the second year I decided to introduce her to my parents, the meeting didn't not went as planed my father was a little bit upfront with her and told her there wont be any marriage between us and I didn't say anything or comment, after the meeting she expressed her feeling she was mad and i calmed her down and got her an apology from my father the next day, after few months i met her mom and she was nice to me and supportive of our relationship, anyhow as we got closer to the two year mark and tension started to arise she wanted us to have a talk about our relationship and figure out if we were to continue or not. we decided on a date that i later propounded due to her birthday if anything would to go wrong i didn't wanted it to happen before her bday. anyhow we had our meeting and she didn't want to convert anymore and she wanted me to compromise instead. i couldn't do that and she wanted me to break the relationship but i didn't i wanted her to hoping she will feel better,
she ended it. a week later she heads to cuba with her friends i tried to work things out between us but she hated my guts. its been 5 months now and i cant seems to get her out of my mind i really love this girl and i should of compromised, i did all the wrong things by asking her to come back and begging for another chance cause i didn't know better or i had a good advice, 3 months ago she told my friends she still love me and consider going back to me if i changed, 2 months ago i decide to leave her alone (NC zone) and wait for her to. about a month after i contacted her asking her how is she doing and all that and she seemed to take her sweet time to reply to me i asked her what is going on and she stated that she is seeing someone, i had a feeling about that actually i could see her online chatting till 3am, after couple weeks i notice her not being online as much, now she is back not like before tho iam assuming it didn't last that long, about 10 days ago she msged me to let me know that the guy i took her car to fix her windshield is stupid and didn't do his job right because it started to leak, now i took this to my advantage and knowing she is an independent and also stubborn person i place few hundred dollors on her car knowing the fact she will get in touch with me to return it and i could have a small date/talk with her. it happened about couple days ago, we meet in a coffee shop, i pretended to be as much friendly and self confident as i could even though my guts are about to fall out, we started the conversation normally although she didn't open up about what is she doing and whats new in her life but i had to to show her that iam a different man, and i tried to bring our good times together, she started to open up a little and told me few things about her life, i opened our relationship subject and how im ready to commit and compromise if she had came back to me, she started asking me personal question if anyone trying to hook me up with a girl and what would i do if my parents didn't approved of our relationship (in our culture parents approval is very important) , at the end she told me that i should try to move on and we might come back in 2 years time and she had mad her mind about our relationship and sheis one
stubborn girl.
i appreciate anyone taking there time to go over this
i really need help and advice to get this girl back i love her a lot
i don't know what to do if i should approach her as a friend or approach her friends to talk to her i really don't know
she left with a part of my heart with her