Hello everyone I´ve decided to post an online journal here to keep track of my progress and to get some feedback when possible from you guys
Background
I´m a 23yrs old college student , so far I´ve been able to get a fair amount of girls but I always go the boyfriend way so far I´ve only had one casual sex partner and one night stand , I´ve been in a 5yr long term relationship but my gf is going to europe for six months so I decide that I want to be with some other girls while she´s gone
I found GC because a girl at my gym always kept looking at me and after one year she suddenly aproached me asked for my name and said that she wanted to get to know me better , after some interactions I started searching for tips and ended up here and started getting through a lot of articles but it was to late with this girl , I´ve already had made lots of mistakes but decided to give it a shot anyway but I couldn´t get her to go out with me although we get along well (she has a boyfriend and he even goes to the same gym so I think that has something to do) I decided to give this one up and keep trying with other girls although I still chat with her when she approaches me at the gym science I don´t have hardfeeling and also because thanks to her I found this awesome site.
Back to myself, before GC my fundamentals were good , I got women attention but after some making some tweaks from what I read here the number of women that notice me is much much bigger , by the time being I´m going to try to get girls at the gym because I already have some kind of high profile there because I´m an atlethe (martial arts) and I do my conditioning training there which is fairly diferent to what most guy do so that gets me some attention besides my father is my trainer and he is always telling people about my acomplisments so a lot of people know that without me saying a word , I don´t pay attention to no one when I´m training because I have to stay focused so all that together has gotten me to a position where a lot of the girls there try to flirt with me etc..
My interactions so far
Here are my interactions so far , I decided to get work first in my aproach anxiety , after 5 years I' m a little rusty
Girl 1(I don´t even know her name) -College
This girl was in one of my clases we had mutual friends so we had lunch together in the class break we had but never got past some small talk with her so I decide to try some of the things with her so one day that we were at an exposition (we made it) I started touching her and deep diving and everything went really well she started touching me back , grabbing my arm etc .. after a little while she asked me to go have lunch with her so we went to the usual place , both of us get along with the staff there really well so were joking with them and she even made some jokes about her being unfaithful to her bf with me and when she spilled her drink she said it was because I made her feel nervous , then we got back to the expo and she had to go I felt that it would have been a good time to take her with me but U had to stay some hours more there , I was going to ask for her number to set up a date but she live really far far away from where I do so I didn´t , then we went on vacation so everything ended there , I didn´t closed but I got some experience with touch and deep diving
Girl 2 (Ana) -gym
This girl had been giving me some flirty smiles for since I first saw her at the gym so one day I decided to talk to her but I made the mistake of waiting for "the perfect moment" and before I knew it she was gone so the next day I saw her when she was close I smiled to her said hi and kept doing my thing , after I had finished with my training I went to where she was and talked to her , I asked her name , age and she also did she is 18 years old so I tried to deep dive and asked if she was in college and what was she studying planning on going the why did you decided you study that route but she isn´t in college yet so I stumbled a little but went to what she was planning to study and why it didn´t went perfect but it was ok. I tried to be a little misterious deflecting her question but I couldn´t although I took my time and gazed on the distance before answering which I kind of recal reading in here although it wans´t on purpose I was trying to think in what should I answer to deflect a little the questions , I told her I had to go told her it was nice to meet her and walked away
One week later I saw her again but I had some trouble re establishing the conecction so I couldn´t get past the small talk but we didn´t had much time , she still seemed happy when I said goodbye so I think this isnt lost yet so I´m going it give it another try next week
So that´s it so far thanks for reading and any feedback is welcomed also I want to thank Chase for the excelent work he has done with girlschase , I already knew about the pick up community before but I tough it was just BS becuase of the routines and pick up lines but what I found here is diferent , he teaches you how to improve yourself to get what you want in this case girls , he stresses out the importance of the basics (fundamentals) to succed and that is the way I do everything in my life so I really liked this place , thanks chase
Background
I´m a 23yrs old college student , so far I´ve been able to get a fair amount of girls but I always go the boyfriend way so far I´ve only had one casual sex partner and one night stand , I´ve been in a 5yr long term relationship but my gf is going to europe for six months so I decide that I want to be with some other girls while she´s gone
I found GC because a girl at my gym always kept looking at me and after one year she suddenly aproached me asked for my name and said that she wanted to get to know me better , after some interactions I started searching for tips and ended up here and started getting through a lot of articles but it was to late with this girl , I´ve already had made lots of mistakes but decided to give it a shot anyway but I couldn´t get her to go out with me although we get along well (she has a boyfriend and he even goes to the same gym so I think that has something to do) I decided to give this one up and keep trying with other girls although I still chat with her when she approaches me at the gym science I don´t have hardfeeling and also because thanks to her I found this awesome site.
Back to myself, before GC my fundamentals were good , I got women attention but after some making some tweaks from what I read here the number of women that notice me is much much bigger , by the time being I´m going to try to get girls at the gym because I already have some kind of high profile there because I´m an atlethe (martial arts) and I do my conditioning training there which is fairly diferent to what most guy do so that gets me some attention besides my father is my trainer and he is always telling people about my acomplisments so a lot of people know that without me saying a word , I don´t pay attention to no one when I´m training because I have to stay focused so all that together has gotten me to a position where a lot of the girls there try to flirt with me etc..
My interactions so far
Here are my interactions so far , I decided to get work first in my aproach anxiety , after 5 years I' m a little rusty
Girl 1(I don´t even know her name) -College
This girl was in one of my clases we had mutual friends so we had lunch together in the class break we had but never got past some small talk with her so I decide to try some of the things with her so one day that we were at an exposition (we made it) I started touching her and deep diving and everything went really well she started touching me back , grabbing my arm etc .. after a little while she asked me to go have lunch with her so we went to the usual place , both of us get along with the staff there really well so were joking with them and she even made some jokes about her being unfaithful to her bf with me and when she spilled her drink she said it was because I made her feel nervous , then we got back to the expo and she had to go I felt that it would have been a good time to take her with me but U had to stay some hours more there , I was going to ask for her number to set up a date but she live really far far away from where I do so I didn´t , then we went on vacation so everything ended there , I didn´t closed but I got some experience with touch and deep diving
Girl 2 (Ana) -gym
This girl had been giving me some flirty smiles for since I first saw her at the gym so one day I decided to talk to her but I made the mistake of waiting for "the perfect moment" and before I knew it she was gone so the next day I saw her when she was close I smiled to her said hi and kept doing my thing , after I had finished with my training I went to where she was and talked to her , I asked her name , age and she also did she is 18 years old so I tried to deep dive and asked if she was in college and what was she studying planning on going the why did you decided you study that route but she isn´t in college yet so I stumbled a little but went to what she was planning to study and why it didn´t went perfect but it was ok. I tried to be a little misterious deflecting her question but I couldn´t although I took my time and gazed on the distance before answering which I kind of recal reading in here although it wans´t on purpose I was trying to think in what should I answer to deflect a little the questions , I told her I had to go told her it was nice to meet her and walked away
One week later I saw her again but I had some trouble re establishing the conecction so I couldn´t get past the small talk but we didn´t had much time , she still seemed happy when I said goodbye so I think this isnt lost yet so I´m going it give it another try next week
So that´s it so far thanks for reading and any feedback is welcomed also I want to thank Chase for the excelent work he has done with girlschase , I already knew about the pick up community before but I tough it was just BS becuase of the routines and pick up lines but what I found here is diferent , he teaches you how to improve yourself to get what you want in this case girls , he stresses out the importance of the basics (fundamentals) to succed and that is the way I do everything in my life so I really liked this place , thanks chase
