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moolar

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Well, I've been doing some online game lately(coupled with my daygame). Though, I had initially been obsessed with it some years back, I had to stop because of the psychological demerits of it. Anyways, I've taken to it lately....although, this time, it's with a different goal and vision. So I know just what am doing.

Anyways, if it can be avoided, online game should be avoided. Too much work involved. I mean, there's always and usually hundreds of AFCs messaging and foolishly chasing each just about every girl. Don't know why, but it happens such that there are always more guys than girls on such platforms at any time of the day, at least for all the ones I've frequented. Too many men chasing stupidly. Talk about scarcity? Lol
So these girls get a bloated image of themselves from all the cheap platitudes they get showered with by guys. And it often gets into their skulls....eventually making them act supercilious towards just about every damn hombre who hollas at her. Can't blame them. As it is, only a handful of guys doing online game truly know how to get things down proper.

So,I've noticed that I get at least an 80% reply rate whenever I send them(girls) an opener as simple as this one:

"Hi (girl's name or username)! How you doing?"

Most of them always reply with something along the line..."I'm good(fine,ok,great,etc). And you?". Of course, I take it up from there and run my process afterwards.
Before now, they, almost all of them, made a hobby out of not replying my greetings/openers.

So guys, you may want to go try this one out... let's see if it's as good an opener as I think it is.
 

Whizzy

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Sounds like a very similar opener to the one I normally used for dating sites;

"Hi miss <insert name>, how are you? ;)"

One thing I've noticed, especially with online dating, is that girls are more likely to respond to guys using proper grammar than those who type "how r u doin today". Not sure why that particular group of girls tends to be online, but I've never heard someone complain about someone that does use proper grammar before either.
 
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Dorito

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moolar said:
Well, I've been doing some online game lately(coupled with my daygame). Though, I had initially been obsessed with it some years back, I had to stop because of the psychological demerits of it. Anyways, I've taken to it lately....although, this time, it's with a different goal and vision. So I know just what am doing.

Anyways, if it can be avoided, online game should be avoided. Too much work involved. I mean, there's always and usually hundreds of AFCs messaging and foolishly chasing each just about every girl. Don't know why, but it happens such that there are always more guys than girls on such platforms at any time of the day, at least for all the ones I've frequented. Too many men chasing stupidly. Talk about scarcity? Lol
So these girls get a bloated image of themselves from all the cheap platitudes they get showered with by guys. And it often gets into their skulls....eventually making them act supercilious towards just about every damn hombre who hollas at her. Can't blame them. As it is, only a handful of guys doing online game truly know how to get things down proper.

So,I've noticed that I get at least an 80% reply rate whenever I send them(girls) an opener as simple as this one:

"Hi (girl's name or username)! How you doing?"

Most of them always reply with something along the line..."I'm good(fine,ok,great,etc). And you?". Of course, I take it up from there and run my process afterwards.
Before now, they, almost all of them, made a hobby out of not replying my greetings/openers.

So guys, you may want to go try this one out... let's see if it's as good an opener as I think it is.
So after their initial reply what do you say next? That is my biggest problem as I am clueless with what to do when I actually do get a response.
 

moolar

Space Monkey
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Well, there are a million ways you can choose to reply her. Personally I follow up with something like...."That's nice to hear. Anyways,I suppose the night/day/evening has been treating you awesome,yea?".
Usually, at this point, most girls after having responded to your question, would then ask about your day, or how you are doing or something in that line. I guess the law of reciprocity playing out here.
Anyways, for all intent and purposes, I always make it a point to clearly spell out what my interest in her is. Something like "I saw your profile and thought you looked pretty cool/smashing/attractive,so I decided to holla" would suffice.
 
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