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If there's one thing i learn a lot, this year, it is that your confidence can bring you halfway there, and skill the other. As Cristiano Ronaldo once said, "The first half-meter is in your head, what's in yours?"
and yesterday, after going to a club where it went well with attending early, talking to the security guards and getting to know the people who manage there. I just could not click somewhat later on the night. I have always been the confident guy, one who believes in himself, but i been taken aback by personal failures recently. and i just have not been able to find personal content even in the simplest of things. I would go on a hiatus for awhile. In this hiatus, I will work on a lot of things, with one being able to be a guy who has great personal magnetism. One trait that i always envy. and i don't know, really.
I always been excited by success, because i used to fail, a lot. and to know that my skill level with women, and my substance is not there yet, can be painful at times. I want to go a lot more and learn in the real world, and i try to see some post and help here now and then, but at times, when you help, you can't help but to think you're gd enough because you not so.
Otherwise, I would like to share, Try to expose yourselves to different environments, there's always something to learn, and sometimes you are great with women older than your age but you having a hard time with the younger ones and you need to acknowledge that, and confidence is only half-way, your skill set must be sufficient.
I would say my skills isn't sufficient yet, and possibly never will, because there's always new challenges, different people.
Zac
and yesterday, after going to a club where it went well with attending early, talking to the security guards and getting to know the people who manage there. I just could not click somewhat later on the night. I have always been the confident guy, one who believes in himself, but i been taken aback by personal failures recently. and i just have not been able to find personal content even in the simplest of things. I would go on a hiatus for awhile. In this hiatus, I will work on a lot of things, with one being able to be a guy who has great personal magnetism. One trait that i always envy. and i don't know, really.
I always been excited by success, because i used to fail, a lot. and to know that my skill level with women, and my substance is not there yet, can be painful at times. I want to go a lot more and learn in the real world, and i try to see some post and help here now and then, but at times, when you help, you can't help but to think you're gd enough because you not so.
Otherwise, I would like to share, Try to expose yourselves to different environments, there's always something to learn, and sometimes you are great with women older than your age but you having a hard time with the younger ones and you need to acknowledge that, and confidence is only half-way, your skill set must be sufficient.
I would say my skills isn't sufficient yet, and possibly never will, because there's always new challenges, different people.
Zac
