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Scofield

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I will say right off the bat that I probably broke several of chase's rules so try not to chastise me too hard about that, I am well aware of that.

Backstory: About 3 weeks ago I went to Club X where I met a girl that I refer to as "Mellany the Masked Woman". It was mardis gras weekend and it was beads/mask night....but she was the only girl brave enough to wear a mask. So I approached her, talked to her a bit hit it off and eventually got her number. She was gorgeous with the mask on and luckily when she removed the mask she was really gorgeous. Since then we've been talking through text but she's been hesitant to meet up due to her busy work schedule and modelling on the side.

Okay, so I went to Club X tonight. While I was waiting in line, I receive a text from Mellany saying "I'm inside Club X, I could really use a dance, come find me I'm wearing a purple shiny dress". I reply that I'm actually in line for Club X and that I'll see her soon. Once I get in...the place is packed and I have so much trouble finding her. I ask her to meet up/give me hints as to her whereabouts but she refuses and I frame it to be playful by saying it was a game of hide and seek and that she liked games. It took me 1 hour to find her and I passed up the chance to talk to so many gorgeous girls in the meanwhile (it was the afterparty for fashion week...) and some of the girls were even eye fucking/smiling at me...sigh.

So after I find Mellany, she's very receptive to me. I ask her what my prize is for finding me and she gives me a kiss on the cheek. Unfortunately she's cut her hair to be "boy short" (I LOVE long hair on girls) but she's still gorgeous...she is a model after all. She's in a VIP booth but I move her immediately to get a drink. (My thought process here was, move her to get a drink away from her friends, dance with her a bit to build physical intimacy, move her to sit down and talk to build a connection then move her to my place to talk/have sex....30 min process tops). I try to trick her into paying by using chase's line "so who's buying the first round?" and she says "you are!" and i give her a sexy look and smile and she says "hey, i already bought myself TWO drinks!" and i gave in and bought us drinks. We drink and chat for a bit (it goes very well)and then I move her to the dance floor. Unfortunately we ran into her friends on the dance floor and she introduces me. Her friends are a lesbian and a black guy. I dance with them/her for a bit and she's all over me. Eventually the black guy leaves and her lesbian friend grabs her away from me and says "no sorry girls only!" and I tell Mellany that I'm going to get a drink and I'll be right back. I go to get a drink and talk to other girls.

Okay, so then I run into Mellany again later at her VIP booth and she's about to get a drink with her black friend so I go and talk to more girls yet again.

Later after I pass by her booth again I ask her to come outside to talk to me. Her lesbian friend is all over her and refuses and she says she'll be back before the song is over and I agree (knowing it wasn't true) and we head to the outdoor area. We chat and it goes very well, she's all over me and we talk, deep dive a bit and she tells me her friend is a lesbian and they just met tonight but that she really wanted her. We flirt, she says the lesbian girl is a great kisser and I say I'm better but don't kiss her to keep her wondering. After a bit she says she really needs to get back to her friends, I try to convince her to stay with me but she refuses. Maybe I wasn't persistent enough I only asked about 3 times. She says she'll find me later. I go to talk to more girls yet again.

Okay so later I find her again on the dance floor during the last dance, she's with her black friend....and they kiss just a bit. I honestly thought he was gay and not a threat at all. They head back to their booth and I find her, convincing her to go outside with me yet again against her lesbian friend's will. We move outside and chat some more and she tells me how the lesbian girl is all over her. We talk and it goes well enough until the workers tell us we have to get moving as the place is closing down. I tell her we barely got a chance to talk and we should go somewhere else and she refuses saying she can't leave her friends and family (it was her sisters birthday). I insist another 3 times and she refuses saying "not tonight". I ask her to meet up sometime during the week and she agrees but says she needs to check her schedule. We hug and she leaves.

I say by to my barmaid friends who work there. and head out.

And when I head out I see just her and her black friend leaving with his arm around her...her sister, friends and lesbian lover nowhere in site. She sees me and says bye. I have no idea what happened after (maybe they got separated from her friends, maybe they fucked, who knows) but I really wish I had taken her home with me...maybe I should have kissed her afterall.

And no, nothing resulted from the other girls I talked to....

So feel free to tell me what I did wrong.
 

Corky

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I'm new here, but one thing that stood out to me is you seeked her out, which is playing her game and chasing. I'd like to hear more from some experienced guys, but I am sure that they will bring that up and probably say you should have moved faster. If it really was her sister's birthday that could mess you up to because I know if it was my brother's birthday I was devoting my night to him wouldn't ditch him for the most gorgeous girl in the world, instead I'd prolly try to set him up with here haha.
 

Scofield

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Corky said:
I'm new here, but one thing that stood out to me is you seeked her out, which is playing her game and chasing. I'd like to hear more from some experienced guys, but I am sure that they will bring that up and probably say you should have moved faster. If it really was her sister's birthday that could mess you up to because I know if it was my brother's birthday I was devoting my night to him wouldn't ditch him for the most gorgeous girl in the world, instead I'd prolly try to set him up with here haha.

No, you are absolutely right, one of the rules I knew I broke, along with the "night club date" that was as disastrous as I thought it'd be. She actually invited me to another night club date for her birthday, and I avoided it for these reasons...but I was already in line and figured I might as well go along with it. Best I could do was reframe the game of hide and seek as being playful and with me as the winner and her as my prize. Probably broke a ton of chase's other rules as well...
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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