Casual/FWB High School Relationships

[allanmogale]

I was admitted to a new school this year. Things were great! I've approached many girls. I have been rejected many times (I don't take it personally anymore) and ironically, I have been approached by many and I have rejected many too, I just hope that they don't take it personally though 'cause it's a preference thingy... so basically this has become a constant to me that I have become fairly popular in school, considering. Some are threatening me to stay away from their girls while some sit and admire.




---- a special thank you to Chase, Franco and the rest of the team whom I'm not aware of and the forum in general---


But this has gotten too boring for me. Younger girls, that is...

I'm only 17 and I think it is safe to say that I have gotten to a stage where I find myself sexually active and I found it extremely exhaustive to sleep with any of the peers I've dated in my life time. All the pleading and persuading has taken its toll on me; I can't take it anymore.




In High School, I don't understand the concept of moving things fast with women... How do I do it? Where do I move things fast with her? 'cause ever since. I have not invested or gotten too attached in any girl without having to sleep with her... I find it pointless. It usually is, I mean 2, 3 months in the relationship one of us, (usually me) gets bored and frustrated, I tend to lose attraction/interest and then I think to myself "Hey? That's approximately 60days of wasted time on kisses and useless conversations." what did I gain from the relationship? A little experience, okay fine. But on thè other hand that's 60 days of field experience lost and it breaks me.


My question is... When coming to relationships, since it's thè only way to sleep with girls in my school or unless I fall for the 'usual suspects'. How do I move things forward and what exactly is moving things forward, is it about the sex, experience or the joy of playing around with girls and getting experience? Please help me fully understand...

 

[Novacane]

What's good allanmogale, glad to find another 17 year old on the site lmfao. Being in high-school the rules don't really change there isn't no set mandatory time in which one needs to escalate, if you want to make it happen make it happen, if it doesn't oh well you learn from it. I have to admit I've picked up on a lot of subtle hints by a lot of different female peers, it's all on how you present yourself. Remember it's easier for the both of you if you two are the only ones who know about it.

 

[PrettyDecent]

Hey Allanmogale,

Just want to clarify some things, as I'm a bit confused on what your question was...Are you sleeping with the women that approach you/you approach? That would be a good way to get experience quickly, and probably the best thing for your game long-term. Its different when you leave high school...as in its slightly harder to get experience (or at least the same amount of experience) from such a number of women that surround you. Also, what are your goals for game? Are you trying to get good at relationships? You describe your situation as full of relationships with no intimacy, so maybe you'd want to pursue that a little harder, since that will help your romantic AND casual relationships.