High value-Instagram

[WittyJester]

One thing I’ve really noticed about high value men and women on social media is that they travel a lot. How do people afford to travel to Europe on a consistent basis?
I really wanna master Instagram game simply because the true 12/10s you don’t see in everyday life. I mostly find 7s and 8s.
Also, where would you suggest going to day game besides malls, coffee shops and beaches. Do you guys return to the same spots day after day? Where do you find the hottest women

 

[trashKENNUT]

How do people afford to travel to Europe on a consistent basis?

- Steward
- Stewardess
- Boyfriend pays
- Fathers money
- Influencer
- Business pays for them

This excludes women who have money but they travel for fashion events, events. This is women who are more work. not what you are refering to. They still take pictures though.

Do you guys return to the same spots day after day? Where do you find the hottest women

Every country, there's facebook post and forums. It will note along the lines of "This small area has a lot of pretty girls".

Hope this helps

 

[WittyJester]

I believe I’m an 8 in value, yet on tinder and Instagram women who are equal to lower value than me do not respond. This frustrates me more than anything else

 

[Tony D]

I know some girls who are influencers. They get free accomodation, free flights, free clothes, and money for taking pics wearing their shoes, using products, etc.

Other girls I know I'm pretty sure are cam girls. They can do their work from any cheap guest house, bungalow, etc.

I know girls who have e commerce biz, t-shirt biz, and some that just travel on Daddy's money, or are sponsored by guys they latch onto.

Me? I'm a dating coach and writer.

If you really want to travel, there's a way to do it. You just need to figure it out. It can be as cheap or expensive as you want.

 

[WittyJester]

I know some girls who are influencers. They get free accomodation, free flights, free clothes, and money for taking pics wearing their shoes, using products, etc.

Other girls I know I'm pretty sure are cam girls. They can do their work from any cheap guest house, bungalow, etc.

I know girls who have e commerce biz, t-shirt biz, and some that just travel on Daddy's money, or are sponsored by guys they latch onto.

Me? I'm a dating coach and writer.

If you really want to travel, there's a way to do it. You just need to figure it out. It can be as cheap or expensive as you want.

Any tips on how to meet these girls and how they get free trips? Also, I’d love to have a convo with you. I feel how to use Instagram/Snapchat, what pictures/stories to use to your advantage would be a great one.
My question to you:
After HS, I didn’t get car till recently.
It seems you need guys to get invited to parties(so you can meet girls), but need to know girls to get invited or create parties. How do I get started? Especially during quarantine.
Also, make friends with actual high value guys. What do they differently!?

 

[WittyJester]

Any tips on how to meet these girls and how they get free trips? Also, I’d love to have a convo with you. I feel how to use Instagram/Snapchat, what pictures/stories to use to your advantage would be a great one.
My question to you:
After HS, I didn’t get car till recently.
It seems you need guys to get invited to parties(so you can meet girls), but need to know girls to get invited or create parties. How do I get started? Especially during quarantine.
Also, make friends with actual high value guys. What do they differently!?

I fundamentally believe I’m attractive and am relatively high value. Therefore, I should reap the benefits of these high value men but I currently am not reaping any. What do I do?

 

[Toby2030]

You won't earn money from instagram without minimum 10k-20k followers. And the amount of money you make with that amount of followers isn't enough for full time. Living off instagram is not what you want to put your energy after. I would start my own company instead if I were in your shoes. (If you want to live the travel life).

Don't overcomplicate making friends.
1. Push yourself into places where you meet new people. Vibe and have a good time.
2. Invite them to do stuff.

Once you have wanna do ladder climbing.
1. Research which people you think can add value to your life in order to get better. Figure out how to offer them something of value they want in return (girls, parties, someone to do a particular sport with, knowledge etc. etc.)

Making friends is all about giving value and making shit happen.
This is the 20% that provides 80% of the results.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Getting a quality social circle is one of the toughest things you can do in game IMO but also once done right, the most rewarding. It is unfortunate that most men in the community will never experience something like this, think they have done game to its peak, and then go on from picking up women because “omg its so overrated”. I’d say in some cities, especially down south, you have to have social circle game working for you or else you are SOL when it comes to getting hot girls.

Now I can also relate with OP on wanting to be THE MAN on social media, deep down some of us just have that want and that desire. People might have their own agendas and judge OP for wanting validation but hey, some men want that fame game and that life, it has its appeal. No need to judge…

I lucked out in a huge way due to my upbringing and had a social circle from high school, continued to build on it in college through Greek Life. Although no matter what, after high school, expect to have a very low success rate with people no matter what you do. I took a class on acting and did intramural sports, out of maybe 20 or so people, 1 or 2 actually connected with me. I found for others it was the same, most people are there and then they move on.

Now after college, here are the most common ways I have seen people successfully meet cool people.

1. Former coworkers and people who used to work with you.
2. Activities themselves but once again, as mentioned, do not get too excited about the success here.
3. Maybe even some cool dudes you meet on the wingman forum here, once again, low success rates as ever.
4. Maybe a guy you connect with as you both are cold approaching in a nightclub.
5. Relevant networking events for your profession.
6. Girls you hit it off with and want to add on social media. I even ask for Instas instead of numbers these days

All in all though, expect very low success rates as normal, I am talking 5%. Most people will not connect, most will not stay in contact, and you can only talk to so many people. I’d connect on IG, put up good content and give it a year. By then you can realistically grow by maybe 100 but don’t get your hopes up. IG is very saturated and even with hash tags it is hard to grow a following on there. Even software that increases follower count is largely scammy and will give you bots that don’t like any of your shit so you become one of those people with 10k followers but like 10 likes a post lol.

Think long-term, it is tough but doable.

Oh yeah and also read these posts here:

How to actually grow your social life.

In my previous post, I talked about why having some sort of a social life is actually a key part of having the results you want with women. Given the name of the site, this is more geared towards g…

millennialbachelor.com

How I used social media to have dating success.

As my series on social media finished, I wanted to share a personal story. So the role of social media platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook has been highly contested in the space of, we…

millennialbachelor.com

 

[WittyJester]

These articles were very helpful. Now I feel a little disappointed due to Covid

Getting a quality social circle is one of the toughest things you can do in game IMO but also once done right, the most rewarding. It is unfortunate that most men in the community will never experience something like this, think they have done game to its peak, and then go on from picking up women because “omg its so overrated”. I’d say in some cities, especially down south, you have to have social circle game working for you or else you are SOL when it comes to getting hot girls.

Now I can also relate with OP on wanting to be THE MAN on social media, deep down some of us just have that want and that desire. People might have their own agendas and judge OP for wanting validation but hey, some men want that fame game and that life, it has its appeal. No need to judge…

I lucked out in a huge way due to my upbringing and had a social circle from high school, continued to build on it in college through Greek Life. Although no matter what, after high school, expect to have a very low success rate with people no matter what you do. I took a class on acting and did intramural sports, out of maybe 20 or so people, 1 or 2 actually connected with me. I found for others it was the same, most people are there and then they move on.

Now after college, here are the most common ways I have seen people successfully meet cool people.

1. Former coworkers and people who used to work with you.
2. Activities themselves but once again, as mentioned, do not get too excited about the success here.
3. Maybe even some cool dudes you meet on the wingman forum here, once again, low success rates as ever.
4. Maybe a guy you connect with as you both are cold approaching in a nightclub.
5. Relevant networking events for your profession.
6. Girls you hit it off with and want to add on social media. I even ask for Instas instead of numbers these days

All in all though, expect very low success rates as normal, I am talking 5%. Most people will not connect, most will not stay in contact, and you can only talk to so many people. I’d connect on IG, put up good content and give it a year. By then you can realistically grow by maybe 100 but don’t get your hopes up. IG is very saturated and even with hash tags it is hard to grow a following on there. Even software that increases follower count is largely scammy and will give you bots that don’t like any of your shit so you become one of those people with 10k followers but like 10 likes a post lol.

Think long-term, it is tough but doable.

Oh yeah and also read these posts here:

How to actually grow your social life.

In my previous post, I talked about why having some sort of a social life is actually a key part of having the results you want with women. Given the name of the site, this is more geared towards g…

millennialbachelor.com

How I used social media to have dating success.

As my series on social media finished, I wanted to share a personal story. So the role of social media platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook has been highly contested in the space of, we…

millennialbachelor.com

I think has to do with extraversion. A large/ multiple social circles is heavily appealing to me