I like what your communicating in this post about not making women the goal. I’ve heard many analogies and metaphors conveyin this same concept. I have a question about the practicality of this and how it can be used as a tool of preselection.
Say you are talking to this girl and you guys are hitting off. She’s laughing at nearly everything you say she seems happy and she’s comfortable with your touch. You then leave her to talk with other girls. This new girl however is totally rejectin you, throwing out stay away signs left and right, you don’t let this shake you however, you continue your pursuit with this new girl because your entertained by it, (she’s not your goal after all) The original girl sees you getting totally rejected by another hot woman, yet your still having fun. Does this make the original girl unattractive by anti-preselection, or would it vamp up attraction due to the reason you stated above?
If you could think of more ways this could be actively portrayed rather than just a mindset to adopt I would be interested to hear. I’d really like to hear your thoughts on this particular example