Casual/FWB Hooked up twice, now what?

[Anonymous]

I have slept with this girl a couple of times over the past two weeks, but know that she gets around a fair amount and is not just sleeping with me. We planned on going to a basketball game in a week and a half and agreed to drinks in the meantime since it is aways away (her suggestion), but this was before we hooked up again a couple of nights ago.

Should I move fast, like many of the articles say and hammer down a night for drinks and try and hook up with her again OR should I be elusive and play hard to get and not talk to her for a week or so, like the article on "Getting a Woman to Fall in Love with you" says to do.. I like hooking up with her once in awhile, but wouldn't mind trying to make her want me as a boyfriend either and only want me instead of all the guys she gets with...

Thanks for the help!

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Honestly the first thing you need to do right now is figure out exactly where you want to go with her. Do you want to keep it casual, or do you want to have a more serious relationship? What you decide here will determine what your course of action should be.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Tom,

but know that she gets around a fair amount and is not just sleeping with me.

IF she someone you know her qualities, you should know if she can be fitting for you, but here you know that she gets around a fair amount and sleeping around, is something you might want to get to know further, how many partners beside you that has been inside her. You would not want to blame yourself for being in a relationship with a party girl, although they can be fun.

Zac

 

[Anonymous]

Yeah the thing is we have a lot of things in common.. So to your point, Thinkingenigma, I guess I would rather try and get her to really like me instead of just the casual relationship we have now... what does that mean for my gameplan moving forward?