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How can I avoid mistakes that I made last night

randy__bobandy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Yesterday I brought a girl back to my place. For someone who is still a virgin, I'd say I did a decent job of not fucking up for the most part. So I start fingering her, all is good and well. I had to search a bit for her vagina because hers was the equivalent of an "innie" bellybutton. But whatever, okay. So I try to make her cum using some techniques I've found online. Basically it was the middle and ring finger curled upwards, and lift up and down quickly. I felt her juices flowing literally and figuratively, but I just couldn't quite get it. Before I could get her to cum, my hand/arm was getting really tired. So I switched hands, went back at it, hand got tired, etc. She also had this habit of closing her legs with full force whenever she was being fingered, meaning that she was literally crushing my hand on several occasions, further inhibiting my abilities to finger her.

But fine, whatever, so I grab a condom and roll it on. So she's laying face up, I'm upright on my knees. Now for me, this position was no conducive to sex, because I'm taller than her, so my dick was high enough to lay on her stomach, and if I bent down a bit, I wouldn't have enough leverage to sustain a pump. (I said she should turn over, implying doggystyle, but she wanted to stay on her back, why?) I was also a little gunshy so I'm only rocking like a 3/4 chub. Any softness in my dick makes finding her vagina harder. Long story short, with the 3/4 chub, innie vagina, strange position, and pressure to perform well for a girl who's first time it was as well, I couldn't get it in..... fucking embarrassing.

What are some ways I can improve my technique?
 

Whizzy

Cro-Magnon Man
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Dont penetrate with anything but your penis the first time, at least until you gain a little more confidence :)
 

daviddreamer

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Have her guide you in and take your time. Don't rush it and stress that is why you went to half chub status.
 

lao che

Cro-Magnon Man
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Grab her legs and push her knees up towards her chest and spread apart a bit. Your palms somewhere near the back of her knees. You should be kneeling in front of her. From there you should have a pretty good view of the target.

Enjoy. Well done for getting that far. Pat yourself on the back
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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