I met a super hot chic today in a park. Tbh, I was a bit intimidated by her looks (I know, I know). I opened her direct, complimented on her hair. She was investing and the conversation lasted a good 15 mins or so and I left the conversation since I had to go somewhere. She was a psychology student. Except my direct opener and strong eye-contact and body language, rest of the conversation was pretty friendly. There was no flirting basically and ended up talking about psychology and life etc. With this frame, it's hard for me to now transition to flirting since I feel it'll come across as incongruent. So, how can I change my frame from friendly to flirtatious over text?
Who says so? Flirting could be anything it doesn't have to be verbal.Strong sexy eye contact itself is flirting if the girl is picking up on it .Wink is flirting in different contexts.I believe any man who got all his fundamentals well handled could come across as sexual provided he has such a frame of mind.Women are only but beautiful creatures who want a charming guy to sweep them off their feet and give them love (sex)is such a frame.
Not the obsequious simp-y love that is all around us but an expression of that vibe.It's within you...it's subcommunicated...it's ingrained.She just picks up on it naturally.
IME I couldn't verbally flirt with some girls cause her friends were around but some of them used to pick up on a sexual vibe no matter what I was talking of.And when I texted them we flirted me setting frames and never had I hear anything as you are weird(herein referring to incongruence).I ended getting together with some of them.Hey all this is randomness you can't win them all.
Quit thinking and text them ladies if u think u may appear incongruent build up to it over time.You may start with something as simple as "hey I noticed you have these naughty eyes*grin*" and later build up to something such as"hey sexy voice(if she sent you a voice note)gets me thinking terrible".All these worked every single time IME.In a sense that I came off as congruent .
Build up to things.You don't immediately deep kiss a girl you build up towards it.You don't grab her tits or pussy without building up to it.U feel me.
Now get out there and give me something
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~ChadTyrone
