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I've had this problem several times while approaching girls.
I am 18 and I have this rather strange problem. Even when I come up to a girl who is the same age as me and I talk to them (like I do quite often with men as well); I can't get any sexual vibe running (I'm completely new to this, haven't even kissed before) and somehow they immediately classify me as this "younger not as experienced boy".
I try to have a proper tonality, and clothes which are *more or less* well fitting; and I believe that my fundamentals are to the point where they won't actively handicap me in any way, but I can't get a sexual vibe running. I'm thinking that more double edged compliments can help with establishing this sexual vibe, and though I'm famously bad at compliments, I think that I might have something going there.
Basically, is there any real way to show that I am a sexual guy? Or just try and hit on every girl within reach?
I usually have a very well rounded friend circle; even though I mostly keep to myself, I do go out of my way to meet new people, and with those I like, I usually see them again at some point. But even though I attract a lot of friends, girls also tend to see me as a friend rather than anything else (Basically I have my "likability" way too high)
Sorry for rambling but the point is this: How do I create a sexual vibe when I seem to be everyone's friend and hopelessly inexperienced?
I am 18 and I have this rather strange problem. Even when I come up to a girl who is the same age as me and I talk to them (like I do quite often with men as well); I can't get any sexual vibe running (I'm completely new to this, haven't even kissed before) and somehow they immediately classify me as this "younger not as experienced boy".
I try to have a proper tonality, and clothes which are *more or less* well fitting; and I believe that my fundamentals are to the point where they won't actively handicap me in any way, but I can't get a sexual vibe running. I'm thinking that more double edged compliments can help with establishing this sexual vibe, and though I'm famously bad at compliments, I think that I might have something going there.
Basically, is there any real way to show that I am a sexual guy? Or just try and hit on every girl within reach?
I usually have a very well rounded friend circle; even though I mostly keep to myself, I do go out of my way to meet new people, and with those I like, I usually see them again at some point. But even though I attract a lot of friends, girls also tend to see me as a friend rather than anything else (Basically I have my "likability" way too high)
Sorry for rambling but the point is this: How do I create a sexual vibe when I seem to be everyone's friend and hopelessly inexperienced?
