How do I deal with a stressed out girlfriend

[miker]

Hey anyone have a lot of girlfriend experience?? My girl is super stressed about life and it’s dragging out on me and potentially ruining the relationship …any advice on how to deal with super emotional girlfriends who want kids but you’re not ready

 

[Will_V]

What have you done so far to manage her expectations?

 

[StrayDog]

More info would be helpful here. How long have you two been together? What is she stressed about? How is that manifesting in her behavior towards you? How have you responded to her in these situations thus far? How do the two of you relate in general? Why did you chose this girl to be your girlfriend? Any or all of these questions could help us help you. So far all we know if your girlfriend is stressed and that is affecting your relationship. Fill us in a bit

 

[Alpha13SC]

Since we don t know all the details, I can say one thing.

In stressful situations, sleep is very underrated and overlooked. If she didn t get a good night rest, arguing with her doesn t go anywhere, because she ll be even more impulsive and will not think straight. For me, timing is important. After getting some rest, people are much more agreeable.

 

[miker]

Since we don t know all the details, I can say one thing.

In stressful situations, sleep is very underrated and overlooked. If she didn t get a good night rest, arguing with her doesn t go anywhere, because she ll be even more impulsive and will not think straight. For me, timing is important. After getting some rest, people are much more agreeable.

I have always handled arguments or her getting heated about something to can we deal with this in the morning …I also find after maybe a stressful day at work or whatever when her emotions r getting into play and maybe something I say sets her off I back off and try to step back from escalating

 

[miker]

More info would be helpful here. How long have you two been together? What is she stressed about? How is that manifesting in her behavior towards you? How have you responded to her in these situations thus far? How do the two of you relate in general? Why did you chose this girl to be your girlfriend? Any or all of these questions could help us help you. So far all we know if your girlfriend is stressed and that is affecting your relationship. Fill us in a bit

Oh by the way what’s happening stray dog it’s been a minute!!

 

[HentaiSamurai]

Headspace app or do mindfulness exercises together with her.

 

[Beck Bass]

super emotional girlfriends who want kids but you’re not ready

You have to be real with them, that's one the most important things for a girl, see if she can wait until you're ready, otherwise, maybe it's better you two go your separate ways, because she likely won't change her mind and she'll resent you (with reason).

As far as her mood, yeah, work can be pretty stressful, generally some good D can help a lot, try to make her feel very appreciated sexually and fuck her as good as you can

manage her expectations?

That's also important, if she hopes she's getting this unreal relationship and it doesn't line up with reality, she's gonna be pretty mad, trying to cope. Don't get her used to good things you can't keep up (like nice dinners at expensive restaurants, some other really time or money consuming activities, think about the future, how you want your relationship to be, and try to mirror that now as well)

 

[miker]

Ya I just gave the d solved the stressing haven’t argued since

 

[StrayDog]

A simple solution. Glad you worked this one out

 

[miker]

The D is key!