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Since I'm doing street game, a lot of time I stop girls while standing and they get into a 30 seconds-2 minute conversation with me. But then they start walking away because I wasn't direct enough with my intent. I'm under the impression that it's not so good to give away your intent so early on because it gives all my power away
I can sense it when girls sense my intent and are walking away from me because they do not like me and are rejecting me. And the case when girls are genuinely rejecting me is not what I am referring to here.
I suppose if I really was very very attractive, they would not want to walk away but I'm just really not hitting a great attraction level because of my skills.
Of course there's the whole outcome independence thing where I let her walk away but of course I can't just let her walk away so yea
Can anyone share some ideas on how to stop a girl walking away that does not look needy?
So far the best I've done is to ignore her attempt to walk away, stand still and just carry on the conversation by asking new questions or giving new opinions. I personally find that giving any attention at all to the thought/possibility of her walking away is a display of neediness.
Would appreciate ideas from anyone
I can sense it when girls sense my intent and are walking away from me because they do not like me and are rejecting me. And the case when girls are genuinely rejecting me is not what I am referring to here.
I suppose if I really was very very attractive, they would not want to walk away but I'm just really not hitting a great attraction level because of my skills.
Of course there's the whole outcome independence thing where I let her walk away but of course I can't just let her walk away so yea
Can anyone share some ideas on how to stop a girl walking away that does not look needy?
So far the best I've done is to ignore her attempt to walk away, stand still and just carry on the conversation by asking new questions or giving new opinions. I personally find that giving any attention at all to the thought/possibility of her walking away is a display of neediness.
Would appreciate ideas from anyone