What's new

How do I deal with Silence?

authenticSelf

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Oct 23, 2018
Messages
46
I often have seemingly good conversations after a cold approach and get the number. But I have been getting radio silence from girls.

How do you deal with SILENCE? Obviously, its a sign of disinterest or the good feelings just evaporated. Todd suggests moving these numbers and mass texting offering value I.e., picture posts etc periodically. Has anyone done this!?
 

Cody Lyans

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Mar 8, 2019
Messages
140
You just be playful and indifferent. Meaning play with her like shes a fluffy plush toy. Occassionally squeeze its cheeks and make faces, and shake it around, then drop it and move on, then repeat again later. Its a sort of thing where how you pursue communicates how seriously or light heartedly you take something. If you get all in a knot over one non response you obviously haven't been successfully texting girls a lot. But if you text her indifferent to her responses and you get smiles out of her even when shes not responding, shes gonna start thinking "ya other girls fall for this" until she feels like she is cool with that and then bites herself
 

authenticSelf

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Oct 23, 2018
Messages
46
@Cody Lyans If I keep periodically texting nonresponsive girls, won't my value fall? Won't the girls think "He is a player/ doesn't get a rejection"? I get that this is the only resort I have left unless I see them out and about. I really have to keep my ego out of this. I have a great professional life and I am surprised when women refuse me hahaha :D
 

Cody Lyans

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Mar 8, 2019
Messages
140
@Cody Lyans If I keep periodically texting nonresponsive girls, won't my value fall? Won't the girls think "He is a player/ doesn't get a rejection"? I get that this is the only resort I have left unless I see them out and about. I really have to keep my ego out of this. I have a great professional life and I am surprised when women refuse me hahaha :D
Unfortunately its a lose lose
Girls all dig players but love to hate on them
Its... NOT YOUR PROBLEM to solve

Seriously... don't carry that stone on your back, its not worth it. Just player it as much as you please, if girls protest. IT DOESNT MATTER
Much like incels protest girls being themselves
Don't pay that crap no mind
People who are confused want to spread that confusion, its not useful to submit to preachy moralising of those who want to serve it up

Give me a woman who wants to talk it intelligently, and I will
But girls spatting about players... c'mon, thats just insensitive jibberish to me
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
Top